|
|
JoonasTo
Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
What if Elvin was female?
|
posted January 04, 2009 10:39 PM |
|
|
Quote: don't make yourself "OMG I can't breathe without her" type.
HEY!
I'll let you know that was awesome.
Truly one of the best experiences of my life so far.
____________
DON'T BE A NOOB, JOIN A.D.V.E.N.T.U.R.E.
|
|
JoonasTo
Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
What if Elvin was female?
|
posted January 04, 2009 10:40 PM |
|
|
|
TheDeath
Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
with serious business
|
posted January 04, 2009 10:41 PM |
|
|
Quote: They're about to graduate. How? I'd send them back to elementary school.
As if graduation means anything...
@Joonas: It may be, but the (eventual) disappointment might be a lot more crushing. Well if you think like it go ahead but I just don't advise it.
____________
The above post is subject to SIRIOUSness.
No jokes were harmed during the making of this signature.
|
|
MightyMage
Honorable
Legendary Hero
of INSANITY and DELICIOUSNESS
|
posted January 05, 2009 05:32 AM |
|
|
Well, between emilsn and winterfate, this thread has completely changed from my depression, confusion, and random confessions of man-whorishness to something uplifting and...nice.
So just out of curiosity, is anyone still interested in hearing updates from me?
____________
Though I must still bow
in awe for the awesomeness that is
MightyMage. For he is all I could ever
want to be! - OhforfSake
|
|
Azagal
Honorable
Undefeatable Hero
Smooth Snake
|
posted January 05, 2009 05:36 AM |
|
|
Always MM, always.
(just to be on the safe side for once I wasn't being sarcastic)
____________
"All I can see is what's in front of me. And all I can do is keep moving forward" - The Heir Wielder of Names, Seeker of Thrones, King of Swords, Breaker of Infinities, Wheel Smashing Lord
|
|
del_diablo
Legendary Hero
Manifest
|
posted January 05, 2009 05:54 AM |
|
|
Quote: So just out of curiosity, is anyone still interested in hearing updates from me?
Indeed
____________
|
|
emilsn
Legendary Hero
|
posted January 05, 2009 07:05 AM |
|
|
Quote: Well, between emilsn and winterfate, this thread has completely changed from my depression, confusion, and random confessions of man-whorishness to something uplifting and...nice.
So just out of curiosity, is anyone still interested in hearing updates from me?
Sorry if I have ruined the depsression of this thread, go ahead I shall not spread anymore joy
No seriously - Just write man.. I just thought: what is love? = I am learning that - so I was still on topic with my more joyful subject
____________
Don't walk behind me; I may not
lead. Don't walk in front of me;
I may not follow. Just walk
beside me and be my friend.
|
|
MightyMage
Honorable
Legendary Hero
of INSANITY and DELICIOUSNESS
|
posted January 05, 2009 07:17 AM |
|
|
LOL
I'm not complaining about your joy. I'm happy for everyone here who has had better luck then me.
I just figured I'd let everyone know that I went out with Jasmine yesterday (meaning Saturday) and it went surprisingly well...awkward but well. The most awkward part was actually going to pick her up and seeing the shocked look on her dad's face when he answered the door.
Don't worry, I didn't "do" anything with her. We did A LOT of talking. She apologized a lot and hugged me every chance she got.
It was....interesting
____________
Though I must still bow
in awe for the awesomeness that is
MightyMage. For he is all I could ever
want to be! - OhforfSake
|
|
emilsn
Legendary Hero
|
posted January 05, 2009 04:42 PM |
|
|
So do we like this Jasmine or is that the one who called to you on christmas eve and cried - Because err.. It seems a little far out, like a twisted relationship where you both wanna be in it but probably can't do it?
-Btw I walked with my non-officiel-girl down the hall of school today , hand in hand - nothing really awkward.. I liked it .. *proud face*-
____________
Don't walk behind me; I may not
lead. Don't walk in front of me;
I may not follow. Just walk
beside me and be my friend.
|
|
MightyMage
Honorable
Legendary Hero
of INSANITY and DELICIOUSNESS
|
posted January 05, 2009 04:55 PM |
|
|
Good job Emil. Now plant a kiss on her lips already!
As far as Jasmine goes....she's the inspiration and backbone of this whole thread.
____________
Though I must still bow
in awe for the awesomeness that is
MightyMage. For he is all I could ever
want to be! - OhforfSake
|
|
veco
Legendary Hero
who am I?
|
posted January 05, 2009 04:56 PM |
|
|
Finally a moderator parashooted in to save the day
@MM
So, did you made up your mind or will you need a couple more of these akward dates? The suspence is killing
@emil
Things are going great for you, just don't get too dreamy
____________
none of my business.
|
|
TheDeath
Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
with serious business
|
posted January 05, 2009 04:59 PM |
|
|
@Dagoth: sorry for ignoring your post, in fact I kinda 'missed' it but I'll answer:Quote: anyway, death, you say there are different types of love and such, but let's say in a completely hypothetical situation that there's this girl that I go out with. We talk with eachother, laugh, hug, kiss, lalala everything that couples do and we're having great fun and even care deeply about eachother. But... Basically, you're telling me that there's no difference in love.
You mean to say that even if I deeply care about her, but simply don't want to move on, the reason would be a lack of attraction? or... Maybe love isn't rational? (remember, hypothesis)
No I actually say there is only one type of love, and it is what you have (from your description of course, I can't read minds yet ). I think you're actually doing a good thing about it. Attraction isn't necessary (even though I have no doubt you have) for love. Excessive attraction makes you blind, not love
Did I answer your question?
____________
The above post is subject to SIRIOUSness.
No jokes were harmed during the making of this signature.
|
|
Moonlith
Bad-mannered
Supreme Hero
If all else fails, use Fiyah!
|
posted January 05, 2009 05:00 PM |
|
|
Quote: Guys stop messing with my head
We are talking about friends from preschool - I have known some of these people for 10-12 years! They are my best friends - okay a few of them are from highschool but screw them
Doesn't mean they can't be standard machos
Personally, from what you say I am tempted to think you like her as a friend.
Why do people think every member of the opposite sex you like must be a potential partnership candidate? You can love in a friendship kind of way. But if it's friendship, I would suggest not outright kissing her It may give her different ideas about what you feel.
____________
|
|
TheDeath
Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
with serious business
|
posted January 05, 2009 05:03 PM |
|
|
Quote: You can love in a friendship kind of way.
If you followed my definition of it, that's the only definition of love. Anything else is love + something else (attraction, etc...).
Then again, there are also different degrees of love. I doubt everyone "loves" their friends as much as, for example, their kids. But there are cases! So yeah, that's love for you. That's the ONLY definition of love. And it should be, but people twist it.
____________
The above post is subject to SIRIOUSness.
No jokes were harmed during the making of this signature.
|
|
emilsn
Legendary Hero
|
posted January 05, 2009 05:07 PM |
|
|
Quote: Good job Emil. Now plant a kiss on her lips already!
As far as Jasmine goes....she's the inspiration and backbone of this whole thread.
I have done it, like 3-4 times man! .. come on, read the thread
and jasmine as the girl who suddenly said you couldn't be together - she is back? Awesome! ( with the parents who didn't like you(?) that one - Awesome)
____________
Don't walk behind me; I may not
lead. Don't walk in front of me;
I may not follow. Just walk
beside me and be my friend.
|
|
veco
Legendary Hero
who am I?
|
posted January 05, 2009 05:12 PM |
|
|
Quote: Then again, there are also different degrees of love.
I'd say that the dictionaries lack words to describe feelings at all. It's not even about the level of affection but also it's type. Trying to name them is as hard as describing so the best thing to do is follow it by context.
emilsn - noone here will provide you with a proper answer, regardless of effort so you'll have to do it yourself
____________
none of my business.
|
|
TheDeath
Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
with serious business
|
posted January 05, 2009 05:13 PM |
|
|
Quote: I'd say that the dictionaries lack words to describe feelings at all. It's not even about the level of affection but also it's type. Trying to name them is as hard as describing so the best thing to do is follow it by context.
What I meant was more like this:
"I would help my friend with X, but I wouldn't give my life for him" -- less 'degree' of love than "I would help my friend with X and even give my life for him".
____________
The above post is subject to SIRIOUSness.
No jokes were harmed during the making of this signature.
|
|
Moonlith
Bad-mannered
Supreme Hero
If all else fails, use Fiyah!
|
posted January 05, 2009 05:24 PM |
|
|
I think the moment science actually manages to understand and describe love, its beauty disappears
____________
|
|
Lexxan
Honorable
Undefeatable Hero
Unimpressed by your logic
|
posted January 05, 2009 05:30 PM |
|
|
Words cannot express the awesome
____________
Coincidence? I think not!!!!
|
|
MightyMage
Honorable
Legendary Hero
of INSANITY and DELICIOUSNESS
|
posted January 05, 2009 06:53 PM |
|
|
Quote: and jasmine as the girl who suddenly said you couldn't be together - she is back? Awesome! ( with the parents who didn't like you(?) that one - Awesome)
Yep, that's the one. Only her parents were fine with me. In fact, her mom defended me when Jasmine broke it off the first time.
It was my mom that disliked Jasmine...at least it seems that way. I don't really know since in actuality it seems like my mom dislikes every girl I date.
____________
Though I must still bow
in awe for the awesomeness that is
MightyMage. For he is all I could ever
want to be! - OhforfSake
|
|
|