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Doomforge
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posted May 21, 2009 10:26 AM |
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Dagoth mate, many of us like to make people laugh, by "entertainer" I mean a clown that fawns upon the other person for the sake of keeping a relationship.
As for the "I won't find love again"... well mate, I myself wouldn't criticize you in the state you are in, but it's really the worst thing to do after a relationship.. my "I don't care, I'm clean" approach may seem big headed to some people, but it's extremely useful in maintaining good mood while having relationships that are pure failure.
And yes, I'm a realist, but also a big dreamer
Oh, and I've been alone for three years & I am now (although I do flirt with a couple girls, but I'm not sure whether to go for it or not.). And it's not THAT horrible when you're 20+, but as a teen.. yeah, it hurts. Just actively seek another GF and you'll get one in no time.
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mvassilev
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posted May 21, 2009 02:45 PM |
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Doomforge
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posted May 21, 2009 03:58 PM |
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I thought I told my story a few times
After my highschool relationship ended (it was halfway through high school) I've been alone for the rest of highschool and 1,5 years in college.
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emilsn
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posted May 21, 2009 06:42 PM |
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Today I told her that I loved her.
She didn't say anything to it but just kissed me(a lot of times).
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Don't walk behind me; I may not
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I may not follow. Just walk
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TheDeath
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posted May 21, 2009 06:45 PM |
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Quote: Seriously, now, is there ever a guarantee that I will be loved again? I'll probably hold someone close again, it's my nature, but what if...
What if I'll be alone, now?
I don't want to be alone...
Here's something simple to ponder about: thinking like this (above) will most certainly NOT increase your chances of not being alone.
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The above post is subject to SIRIOUSness.
No jokes were harmed during the making of this signature.
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DagothGares
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posted May 21, 2009 06:51 PM |
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I know that emotional balance is key, but...
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Keksimaton
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posted May 21, 2009 07:06 PM |
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Don't let those elipses keep you from emotional balance! Life goes on even without miss Dove. I'm sure she was a nice lass, but it's not the end of the world, it is more like the beginning of an entirely new one. Crawling around in sorrow won't bring you any closer to picking yourself back up.
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Noone shall pass, but no one besides him shall pass.
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mvassilev
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posted May 21, 2009 10:32 PM |
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Quote: I thought I told my story a few times
After my highschool relationship ended (it was halfway through high school) I've been alone for the rest of highschool and 1,5 years in college.
But you've been with several 15-year old girls!
Quote: Here's something simple to ponder about: thinking like this (above) will most certainly NOT increase your chances of not being alone.
It is only rarely that I agree with Death. This is one of those times. This is so true.
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DagothGares
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posted May 21, 2009 10:41 PM |
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It's something very unlike death to say something like that and fitting to him at the same time, but I suppose it's the place where death's discipline and collectivist ideals come up and mvass' idea of a strong individual...
Anyway, it makes me think of it as a paradox, more or less. If you want love, respect and the ability to rest, you won't get them, just because the desire leans to 'pathetic', but whatever...
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Doomforge
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posted May 21, 2009 10:47 PM |
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Quote: But you've been with several 15-year old girls!
Yeah, but that's more recent
Dagoth, they say you don't find love, but love finds you. Seeing how people who actively seek fail all the time, and seeing dudes not searching at all finding themselves in love, I think it's more or less true.
You just have to keep your eyes open for opportunities..
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mvassilev
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posted May 21, 2009 10:53 PM |
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If you want love, you have to let it come to you. Be what you want to be first, and worry about the rest later. Hold true to your values - and don't forget to have self-esteem - and then the rest will come. If you build it, they will come.
T-Rex speaks the truth:
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Doomforge
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posted May 22, 2009 08:38 AM |
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I would agree whole-heartedly with that pic - that's what I do.
I try to talk. It doesn't work? Talk again. Still doesn't work? DUMPING TIME. And no regrets.
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emilsn
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posted May 22, 2009 08:14 PM |
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Quote: Today I told her that I loved her.
She didn't say anything to it but just kissed me(a lot of times).
??? - Ahh well nvm
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DagothGares
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posted May 22, 2009 09:01 PM |
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I fail to understand what your second reply is about, emilsn. What do you want me to say? Congratulations?
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Doomforge
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posted May 22, 2009 09:22 PM |
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Most likely
oh well. congratulations emil, if that's what you want.
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DagothGares
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posted May 22, 2009 11:38 PM |
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Fine, congratulations, emilsn!
I wish you lots of happiness and fuzzy feelings.
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emilsn
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posted May 23, 2009 09:38 AM |
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Ahh well - More about the thing she didn't say it back ... so I now stand in the darkness of the unknown.
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Don't walk behind me; I may not
lead. Don't walk in front of me;
I may not follow. Just walk
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winterfate
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posted May 23, 2009 09:39 AM |
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I'm pretty sure that she loves you back.
(She did kiss you after all).
Sometimes, actions speak louder than words.
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If you supposedly care about someone, then don't push them out of your life. Acting like you're not doing it doesn't exempt you from what I just said. - Winterfate
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Doomforge
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posted May 23, 2009 10:11 AM |
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Even if she doesn't, it's still worth it, don't you think ?
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Mytical
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posted May 23, 2009 10:14 AM |
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Quote: Ahh well - More about the thing she didn't say it back ... so I now stand in the darkness of the unknown.
This is where you are wrong. She did say it back in her own way. Trust a former female when I say that that reaction is an "Oh my god he(she) said he(she)loved me! I am so happy!" reaction. She was just too caught up in the moment to verbalise it.
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