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veco
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who am I?
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posted July 18, 2009 06:44 PM |
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Did you try the awesome powers of the internetz yet, Doom?
high chances to pick up she-nerds there but on the other hand you'd probably get swamped with emokids having ~3 accounts on one portal, lol
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Doomforge
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Retired Hero
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posted July 18, 2009 06:53 PM |
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Quote: Did you try the awesome powers of the internetz yet, Doom?
high chances to pick up she-nerds there but on the other hand you'd probably get swamped with emokids having ~3 accounts on one portal, lol
Oh yes I did - I met a lot of girls that way
Don't hope for she-nerds, though... they are not there.
there are usually three kinds of girls there:
1. big-ego girls who simply want praise, not actual relationship (or they already have one but still want to have fun watching countless losers trying to pick them up)
2. Girls who occupy all services related to photos (polish equivalent of facebook) and also happen to have an account at dating portals - they don't care at all though
3. Girls that got dumped and desperately search for a new boyfriend, usually with extremely high requirements, but offering nothing in return except another flat personality, no hobbies and 100% conformist life style.
A place to avoid, seriously. >_______>
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mvassilev
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posted July 18, 2009 06:54 PM |
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They're purposely looking for people with a flat personality?
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veco
Legendary Hero
who am I?
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posted July 18, 2009 06:59 PM |
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@Doom
that sounds exactly like real life
you only need to replace 'internet profile' with 'drinking and disco'
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none of my business.
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Doomforge
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Retired Hero
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posted July 18, 2009 07:40 PM |
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Quote: They're purposely looking for people with a flat personality?
umm, no, I actually meant the girls offer nothing in return for their high requirements other than flat personality and other stuff ;D
Damn my English.
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Darkshadow
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Cerise Princess
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posted July 18, 2009 08:23 PM |
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Quote: So hard to find good women nowadays, lemme tell you.
Hard?Am quite sure you have searched in the wrong places.
Or have not learned the art of brainwash
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Fauch
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posted July 19, 2009 12:48 AM |
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I can offer a crazy personality for my insanely high requirements
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MightyMage
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Legendary Hero
of INSANITY and DELICIOUSNESS
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posted July 22, 2009 07:24 AM |
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Alright everyone, I need some help so put your minds together and see if you can pull me out of a bind.
I won some tickets to a baseball game about a month ago. The game is tomorrow. I LOST THE TICKETS! I can't find them anywhere. I've torn apart my house looking for them.
I told Jasmine that we would have to change our plans because I couldn't find the tickets anywhere. She got very upset and went on to say, "WTF! They were in your car when I last saw them. Seriously, this is messed up. I took time off work! Why didn't you save them in an important place!?"
So yeah, she's pretty mad at me right now and she won't answer her phone. Any ideas on how to fix this?
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Though I must still bow
in awe for the awesomeness that is
MightyMage. For he is all I could ever
want to be! - OhforfSake
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Mytical
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Chaos seeking Harmony
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posted July 22, 2009 07:49 AM |
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Short of some miricle and you finding them (did you look in your vehicle btw?) there may ONLY be one way. It ain't gonna be cheap though.
Since I assume the game is sold out, it might require something shiny. Not only something shiny, but a heartfelt appology along the lines of "I know I messed up with loosing the tickets, and I am going to do everything I can to make it up to you." type deal. A picnic (on the day of the ballgame since she already took the day off) or a nice restaurant. Take her to something SHE would like (a movie she might like that you would never watch in a million years, etc).
Personally, I'd pray that those tickets showed up
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DagothGares
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No gods or kings
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posted July 22, 2009 07:58 AM |
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Have you looked in all the obvious places?
It's usually the obvious ones you overlook, but otherwise: Godspeed!
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angelito
Honorable
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proud father of a princess
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posted July 22, 2009 10:50 AM |
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I would tend to the opposit of TPAM.
Mostly you will find things in places you would NEVER had thought of.
I once found my money bag in the refrigerator!
Yeah...funny....but was easy to explain.
Came home, with money bag in 1 hand and a bottle in the other hand. Wanted to put the bottle into the freezer immediately, was no place...layed down the bag where the cheese was (), put in the bottle, layed back the cheese...closed the door. bamm.
Took a while till I found it...
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alcibiades
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of Gold Dragons
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posted July 22, 2009 10:56 AM |
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Yeah, I once lost my wallet in my parents breadbin. lol Pretty much same story.
But back on topic - sorry, but I think she's unreasonable if she puts you on ice just because you lost the tickets. It's not because you did it on purpose just to annoy her. Some people are like that, and I honestly think you need to appology to her, but also make it clear to her that it's not fair that she blames you like you did it intentionally. She may not like it, but if it's going to work out with the two of you for long, she will need to be more accepting that mistakes happen.
Just my 5 cents.
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Doomforge
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Retired Hero
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posted July 22, 2009 11:23 AM |
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Yeah, pretty irresponsible behavior... if she was 15 it would be more acceptable, lol but she's in the mid twenties, I guess?
I would feel really annoyed.
Oh, and btw guys, one date remaining. One last chance the previous one wasn't bad, but wasn't great either, not exactly what I'm looking for. ~~
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william
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LummoxLewis
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posted July 22, 2009 11:36 AM |
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Dunno if you've said it before, but how old are these girls Doomforge? Just curious.
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waste the hours in an off-hand
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Mytical
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Undefeatable Hero
Chaos seeking Harmony
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posted July 22, 2009 11:49 AM |
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A little advice, take it or leave it. Don't wait for Mr or Mrs Perfect. You will most likely end up sad and alone. Having criteria is fine, but having too high can insure you never find anybody.
The flaws can make things interesting
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Doomforge
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posted July 22, 2009 01:55 PM |
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william: well, much older then before. One was 18, two other were 19, and one is even 23. @_o yeah it's so not-me.
Mytical: I understand ofc, but why bother being with someone when you don't feel ANYTHING towards that person? No fascination, NOTHING? Just for the sake of being with someone? That would be unfair towards that person. She might "fall in love" or whatever, while I would remain cold and... you know... just use her. I'm an ***hole, but I don't want to use people.
It's not about flaws, really.. I wouldn't mind a bit less "beautiful" person, pretty average is ok, as long as the personality is fine and the magic is flowing.
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alcibiades
Honorable
Undefeatable Hero
of Gold Dragons
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posted July 22, 2009 03:11 PM |
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I know different things work for different people - some people are with one person for their entire life, but I think most people make good of a bit of "trial and error" approach. Don't necessarily expect that your first relationship will be your last - but on the other hand, don't write it off prematurily, give it a chance and see where it goes.
I think it's important to be true to oneself. Don't stay in it if you actually don't feel for it. You'll be wasting your time, but more importantly, you will also waste the other persons time, who may unknowingly be more serious at it than you are.
And if it doesn't work out, learn from the mistake. What went wrong, what could you have done better, was there something about the other person that you didn't match with, and if, then what, so as to avoid that in future relationships. Sadly, we often tend to go back to persons that are similar to the once we were with - at least if we didn't end the relationship - thus repeating the mistake.
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Minion
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posted July 22, 2009 03:50 PM |
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I am at that point right now.. I am considering ending my relationship, because the thing is... he doesn't feel the same way for me that I do for him. I think it is a waste of time. But I don't want to make decisions too hastily, but then again how long should you "wait and see what happens"? So annoying...
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Doomforge
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Retired Hero
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posted July 26, 2009 11:56 AM |
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Well Minion you know what uncle Doomforge says in "those moments"
either tomorrow or tuesday, I got another date. So many attempts, geeez. I could of course cling to a random girl just for sex and peace of my mind, but hell, it wouldn't be too fair.
It would be like...
Hey, I want you, but not for who you are, in fact I don't give a **** who you are or what do you think about life, all I want is to find a bit of peace for myself.
Perhaps I would find peace, but I wouldn't find any affection at all, I guess
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Mytical
Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
Chaos seeking Harmony
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posted July 26, 2009 12:00 PM |
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Staying with somebody just for sex, I agree is not right. Are you sure you are not just looking for flaws? Everybody has flaws, and if you look hard enough you are bound to find them. If you wait for somebody 'perfect' you are never going to be happy.
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