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husham123
Famous Hero
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posted March 03, 2021 04:52 AM |
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fred79 said:
i'm miserable regardless. modding heroes is the only thing i have left that i enjoy.
Oh how the might have fallen...
Damn man, I remember the good ole' days, when you first showcased your mods and I was so hyped about all the good work you've done, and though (if I recall correctly) you almost drowned and everything, and there was this backstabbing piece of snow on these forums that catfished many people, I fail to realize, just why are you being so cynical ? After all, you're not meant to take what is outside of the Library of Enlightenment or WoG and Beyond too seriously.
I miss the old you 
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What the darn-diddily-doodily did you just say about me, you little witcharooney? I’ll have you know I graduated top of my class at Springfield Bible College, and I’ve been involved in numerous secret
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fred79
Disgraceful
Undefeatable Hero
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posted March 03, 2021 08:05 AM |
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i miss being blissfully ignorant. i used to think i knew people, and those in my personal life.
i used to believe those i had relationships with were closer to me.
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Salamandre
Admirable
Omnipresent Hero
Wog refugee
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posted March 03, 2021 09:47 AM |
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Relationships are never set in stone, people get closer if you give them what they need then will go away if you take more than you give. Hard to achieve balance in friendship, then family communication can go even worse because we tend to believe they owe us something by default.
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Galatea
Supreme Hero
Well, I'm Ceres!
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posted March 03, 2021 02:58 PM |
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Salamandre said:
Relationships are never set in stone, people get closer if you give them what they need then will go away if you take more than you give. Hard to achieve balance in friendship, then family communication can go even worse because we tend to believe they owe us something by default.
I agree with this. Learned it the hard way. 
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And she told you, laughing down to her core, so she would not cry, as she lay on your lap,
"Nobody here can live forever, quiet in the grasp of dusk and summer."
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Oddball13579
Supreme Hero
Grandmaster of the Hunt
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posted March 04, 2021 04:54 AM |
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That's a very pessimistic and narrow view of relationships and friendships. To say that all friendships and relationships are equal doesn't really have a basis in reality. That you need to give and take in equal amounts is pretty narrow.
All relationships and friendships are about give and take. None are equal. Some you give more and take less, others you take more and give less. There is nothing inherently wrong with that. It's giving and taking what you are comfortable with. It is when they, or you, being to give too much or take too much that it becomes detrimental to you or the other party that it becomes an issue.
A lot of my friendships I give more than I take. I give nearly all of me, while I take very little from my friends. It has nothing to do with them not giving me anything, in fact it is quite the opposite. I do not like taking. I refuse it a lot of the times. Sometimes I will give in and accept, but most of the time I don't. And I am perfectly content with that and my friends understand this and do not take advantage of me. It's all about understanding how the people in your life function and what they need and want, as well as understanding what you need and want from that person.
As for family, well, I keep having people tell me that family is the most important thing in life. I think that is a load of bs. The friends I have made in the past two years mean more to me than my family ever did. Family I feel is inherently selfish. Family believe they are entitled to you and your time and help. Parents seem to treat their kids like free labour sometimes. So I agree with Sal on that front.
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Galatea
Supreme Hero
Well, I'm Ceres!
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posted March 04, 2021 05:08 AM |
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Not really pessimistic and narrow!
Like all other things, it depends on how you'd look and deal with it. If we keep getting too attached to relationhips and expect something in return or expect something that we want, then that's not good. Because of it didn't happen, then we'd just be sad and frustrated.
Happiness depends on ourselves not on others.
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And she told you, laughing down to her core, so she would not cry, as she lay on your lap,
"Nobody here can live forever, quiet in the grasp of dusk and summer."
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GrandReek47
Tavern Dweller
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posted April 08, 2022 01:43 AM |
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Haha, I know what you are talking about. I used to play Minecraft when I was younger. It was one of my favorite games. I still play it sometime, but not so often. I passed the story mode three times, and it is something incredible. Now I prefer to play online. There are many interesting servers available on [url=https://servers-minecraft.net/minecraft-bedwars-servers]https://servers-minecraft.net/minecraft-bedwars-servers[/url]. Also, their servers are free and are always full of people. If you are interested, check it out by yourself. I am sure you won't be disappointed.
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NimoStar
Responsible
Legendary Hero
Modding the Unmoddable
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posted April 10, 2022 05:47 PM |
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The bot reminds us that even in 2021 we were a more wholesome forum.--
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Celfious
Promising
Legendary Hero
From earth
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posted April 11, 2022 10:01 PM |
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Theres beavis
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What are you up to
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