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Thread: Feelings. What is love? | |
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HALT
Known Hero
Knight of Justice
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posted June 08, 2002 06:38 PM |
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Feelings. What is love?
Can anybody define feelings?
Lets say fear – I think we all can fell fear and we can recognize it when it comes or joy we know this feeling same with happiness.
But what about love? Can someone notice it? Define it?
When I first my fiancée I didn’t realize that I fell in love with her. We worked together and I was about quit the job. We were talking a lot and she had another guy in her life…and I wanted to se her as a friend, but One night she walked to me put her hands around me and said “don’t quit, don’t leave” she was almost crying and I couldn’t. At that very moment I started realizing that I fell more than friendship for her. But still couldn’t see love. It came much later.
So guys what is love?
Can you recognize it when it comes?
Can you define it?
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Romana
Responsible
Supreme Hero
Thx :D
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posted June 08, 2002 09:00 PM |
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well..I knew the first time I saw my Michael that he was the one for me..
I never noticed any other guys before him..i just thought all guys were childish
But then I saw him..and I got this feeling of "coming home"
After that we saw eachother every day and I was so happy and forgot all my troubles..it's truly like you're beeing carried..I felt I could do anything with him by my side and we did..We got ourselves our first appartment after a year and struggled to get by since we were both still in school and working..
As I look back on those years I have absolutely no regrets and feel very lucky to have found my "soulmate".
I wish everyone could experience the same thing cause it is true Heaven
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The darkest skies show the brightest stars
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Wesley
Disgraceful
Famous Hero
banned
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posted June 09, 2002 12:43 AM |
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What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me NO MORE!
I want no other,don't want another, is there some place out of time,
we are together, i need you forever, what is love?
WHAT IS LOVE! baby don't hurt no more
What is love? baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me no more.
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Pepe
Tavern Dweller
Druid seeking for adventure
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posted June 12, 2002 12:00 PM |
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Love is a wanderful thing until we get dump.But is grate,the filing to be loved is grate.
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Begone Demons!
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Consis
Honorable
Legendary Hero
Of Ruby
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posted January 19, 2004 07:41 AM |
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Edited By: Consis on 15 Jan 2005
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Sometimes It Depends On How Dangerous You Are
I know from experience that sometimes love can be with a dangerous person. I once chose to play that role. It's filled with ups and downs in the relationship. Sometimes you can be completely satisfied with a single nonsexual act like being told you're evil.
Yeah, that was me with my ex-wife. I loved the attention I got for being hated by everyone but her. I don't speak for her but she seemed unable to break off the relationship earlier than she did. We were together for about 3 years and married about 2. We were both in the military and had plenty of cash to spend. We'd waste money on expensive clubs and fancy dinners late at night after the club would close. She stalked me and I played mind games with her.
It was a sick relationship now that I think about it, but we both were considered hot items because I was AirForce(u.s.a.f.) special forces and she was this ex-movie star gone security police.
A lot of the fellas I worked with would invite us to dorm parties, hit on her(attempted courtship), and I would act like I didn't care. She thought I was a pig after asking her to do a 3-some with my brother. I think I was truly demented. The whole relationship ended with both of us inexcusably unfaithful and trying to get back at the other by seeing(dating) people we really didn't care about; dangerous and sick. I suppose love is like that sometimes. The closest analogy to describing it(our relationship) is the way a moth is drawn to the flame. Why? I haven't a clue. On thing is for certain though: it is completely self destructive behavior. I attempted suicide twice, she tried three times, and now she's in therapy for the rest of her life.
Love of this kind will do exactly that. I'm glad I lived through it. I'm also repairing my confidence and character. I seek peace now; and warn others of the danger involved in such an endeavor.
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Roses Are RedAnd So Am I
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frostwolf
Famous Hero
livin' in a bottle of vodka
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posted January 19, 2004 10:53 PM |
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I guess there comes a time in every person's lfe when he asks himself what is love. But no one ever managed to define it.
Anyway, I think love is a brief, passing period of time in a person's life, but it is the most wonderful part of that person's life. Love truly gives you wings, love can be beautiful and painful at the same time, but wether we hurt or not, love is in itself amazing for making us live so intense feelings, feelings that we otherwise wouldn't have.
To bad my signature applies....
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What can you expect from a world where everybody lives because they're too afraid to commit suicide?
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tigerangelz
Known Hero
Angelic Tigress
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posted January 20, 2004 02:01 AM |
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Faith Hill defined it pretty well in a song.
I don't want another heartbreak
I don't need another turn to cry
I don't want to learn the hard way
Baby hello, oh no, goodbye
But you got me like a rocket
Shooting straight across the sky
It' s the way you love me
It's a feeling like this
It's centrifugal motion
It's perpetual bliss
It's that pivotal moment
It's (ah) impossible
This kiss, this kiss
Unstoppable
This kiss, this kiss
Cinderella said to Snow White
"How does love get so off course
All I wanted was a white knight
With a good heart, soft touch, fast horse
Ride me off into the sunset
Baby I'm forever yours"
It' s the way you love me
It's a feeling like this
It's centrifugal motion
It's perpetual bliss
It's that pivotal moment
It's (ah) unthinkable
This kiss, this kiss
Unsinkable
This kiss, this kiss
It's the way you love me
It's the way you love me
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Rage08
Famous Hero
Making it in the real world
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posted January 18, 2005 10:09 PM |
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I think love is different for eveybody... I think love is a very high emmotional state that you may get from many things, but it seems to be more noticeable from somebody you care for. It seems there may be two different loves in this regard... the one where you want to be with someone so badly and you're always paying attention to how they act and their feelings and you're always thinking about them and always wanting to comfort them, physically and emmotionally. You can't seem to release this built up heartache, so you focus on them in everything you do and it hinders your mental state quite noticeabally. This stage may (hopefully) lead to the other kind of love, where you're with them and you'll do anything to protect them and not lose their love. You feel so lucky and happy that you're with them and you want it to never end. Of course, this may unfortunately be just young love, and we all know nothing can last forever. And we all know that hearts can always change, but anyways, that's what I think...
I suppose there's also the family and close friend category, but this feels entirely different (for me atleast) unless you're in love with your best friend...
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