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Juulcesaar
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posted August 29, 2002 04:58 PM |
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Strange DM hasn't come to enjoy his triumph.
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I do no longer exist...
Check 'reynaert' if you want to see me...
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The_Gootch
Honorable
Supreme Hero
Kneel Before Me Sons of HC!!
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posted August 29, 2002 05:16 PM |
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I figured you for a lot of things Romana, but a quitter?
Over DM? A 2-bit punk who begs and pleads with a woman to make love to him and when she finally relents, turns around and calls her a snow to everyone else?
That's pathetic.
You didn't do anything wrong.
If you want to dole out your HC password, who's to stop you? Us? The gossiping, jabber-jawing masses?
Show me where in the FAQ/Rules you committed a cardinal sin.
The chickens in the hen house are always going to squawk.
As one of the chicken herders, you have to power to lop off the head of any of them that so much blinks at you the wrong way.
And if the other chickens start chattering cause you whack one of them...well...you're the one holding the axe.
I never thought you'd turn it on yourself.
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Hexa
Responsible
Legendary Hero
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posted August 29, 2002 05:20 PM |
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Strange DM hasn't come to enjoy his triumph.
I think U won't be seeing DM very often here anymore .. nor his other accounts!@
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madmartigan
Bad-mannered
Famous Hero
who will never walk alone
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posted August 29, 2002 05:23 PM |
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bye bye Sir_Stiven then? 
(not serious, just kidding.. so dont jump on me)
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Romana
Responsible
Supreme Hero
Thx :D
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posted August 29, 2002 05:30 PM |
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Where did I say I will quit HC?
I will still be actively posting here..just not as a mod..
And i don't see it as quitting ..I see it as a self enlightenment that I am not fit to be a mod..
I miss being a poster..having fun
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pandora
Honorable
Legendary Hero
The Chosen One
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posted August 29, 2002 05:36 PM |
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romana
I don't really know many members here too well personally, and don't post often - but i do read often and this one was one i wanted to add my 2cents to, for whatever its worth ..
From all the posts I have read from Romana, it has always been my impression that she genuinely cares about this community - and its often hard to find 'geniune' on the net. I've always found her posts to be very diplomatic, and you can see that her interest is in keeping the community strong, positive and a fun place to stop by.
I think giving her password to DM was really dumb, lol but it was a mistake - and i think that she had the guts to come forth and openly admit it says something for her- she didn't HAVE to do this.
I think a slap on the wrist and a stern warning not to do it again would suffice 
Anyways, thats just what i think - play nice everyone 
Don't step down as a mod Romana, you do a good job here
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"In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends."
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Juulcesaar
Adventuring Hero
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posted August 29, 2002 06:34 PM |
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I think U won't be seeing DM very often here anymore .. nor his other accounts!
He is banned?
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I do no longer exist...
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Hexa
Responsible
Legendary Hero
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posted August 29, 2002 06:43 PM |
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Well not yet .. but his accounts have got a floodprotect of about 33 years now!@
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Grythandril
Famous Hero
who is a Chaotic Wizard
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posted August 29, 2002 09:19 PM |
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So you made a mistake Romana, so what.
We all learn from our mistakes to avoid doing them again. then we move on
You, I and everyone here is human and it is human nature to make mistakes, bring happiness, even cause tears.
I dont think you should quit.
But that decision must be yours and i will respect that.
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Might is Power
Magic is Power
Honor is Power
Power Rules Above All
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Cat
Honorable
Supreme Hero
Gonna Get Dirrty...
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posted August 29, 2002 10:20 PM |
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Never ever make emotional decisions.
As I posted before, Romana, you have a good heart and I'd rather have you modding me than somebody efficient as hell who doesn't give a damn about what they are doing.
I don't care what she's done. The bottom line is, as a poster, she has always been good to me. when I first joined HC she went out of her way to introduce herself to me. She has a fun, sunny personality, is a skilled player and a good friend. If you tell her a secret it will go no further.
Her only real fault is that she believes other people to be like her. Well, we all have faults. "Let he who has not sinned cast the first stone". What? No stones?
Congratulations, everybody. you fell straight into a baited trap set by a king-size looney with nothing better to do than make people's lives a misery. Do you really want him to know that he's won? Romana, I beg of you:- if you let him win, you let us ALL down. You will DESTROY the community you love.
I don't care what you think, girl. It is no longer your choice. As a moderator you belong to the community, and as a member of that community I am telling you that you may not resign.
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 Diwethaf Gloau Sylw y Gymreag
http://aozos.com/phpBB2/index.php
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Romana
Responsible
Supreme Hero
Thx :D
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posted August 29, 2002 10:41 PM |
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HEy..I'm not gone yet..I'll leave as soon as DM is banned..till then 
you know what...
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2XtremeToTake
Promising
Supreme Hero
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posted August 29, 2002 10:54 PM |
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Whoa whoa whoa now.....I meant that HC time machine in no seriousness!!!!!
Anyways, Romana (and lith) if you quit being mods i have lost all respect for both of you, it just proves you cant handle it, and are just gonna walk away to fix the probalem. You are the newest mod, you learn from your mistakes. And i feel you have already learned from the mistake. BTW, you still have mod status.
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I almost had a psychic girlfriend but she left me before we met.
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Romana
Responsible
Supreme Hero
Thx :D
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posted August 29, 2002 11:03 PM |
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btw..have you seen val around lately..I didn't ..so till he comes back I am still a mod..and if he allows it i will remain a mod..but only if he allows it
And I am sure Lith feels the same way..so don't go talking how you lost respect bla bla bla..WHO CARES?
actually that was a good question..who DOES care?
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CraigHack
Known Hero
Have fantasies, will travel...
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posted August 29, 2002 11:14 PM |
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Mistakes is experience!
We need you even more now that you have this experience
I wish you could post as you always have, a Non-Mod is you at your best. You get involved. You keep things moving!
But you can still be a mod.... Just dont get as deeply involved in Mod-Mode as you do in Non-Mod-Mode. Use a separate account to have fun on the board, It's hard to have fun and be "official" at the same time. A conflict of interest you might say.
It's a rat race for sure. Just dont let the rats win if possible.
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The Gods have brought us together... I can't imagine why.
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arachnid
Promising
Famous Hero
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posted August 30, 2002 12:03 AM |
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I wonder how I could "marry" such a pride freak.
P.S. Since i'm in the bottom of this all and I feel guilty for causing all the trouble, I suggest Val bans me. Or, deletes my account and bans me. Sounds reasonable.
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Romana, I believe we should talk
There is one very serious issues that concerns the modsquad.
The problem is that you should take my words for granted and not check for proof because it's going to spoil later fun.
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Are you going to listen to me
Or you'll allow to be surprised when you learn?
P.S. There's that law that you can keep silent in court and not testify is what you say is going to harm you or spoils your privacy. Well, I am using that law now.
whats all this about?
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Romana
Responsible
Supreme Hero
Thx :D
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posted August 30, 2002 12:29 AM |
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it's a secret ..shhhh
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2XtremeToTake
Promising
Supreme Hero
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posted August 30, 2002 12:31 AM |
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Lol
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I almost had a psychic girlfriend but she left me before we met.
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Aculias
Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
Pretty Boy Angel Sacraficer
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posted August 30, 2002 01:08 AM |
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Yes you were thy one to give him pass but lessons to be learned but as long as you do learn I am sure no one is perfect.
All my life I made wrong & bad decisions that reflected my change of my whole life forever.
One example was I didnt take scholl seriously but to have fun I did alot of bad thangs in my young life & seen done alot & I know alot then a young person as myself seen.
If you cant learn from your mistake then yes back down but also think about this one closely Romana.
In my life I was never giving a sec chance in nothing my ex broke up with me with out giving me a chance to say nothing she never gave me a chance.
I lived all in rock bottom I seen people who could of made it in this world if only someone gave them a chance.
I read books on some important people who we never would of heard only because they were giving a chance.
I always give people a sec chance or first only because I was never ever giving a chance in anythang.
So just do yourself a favor & ask yourself.
"Can I learn from my mistake"
Will I ever do it again since I think I can learn but I wont be persuaded to do so again"
If you can do those thangs then shoot no reason why not give yourself a chance but you were also honest & that helps a big deal then hiding it then all of a sudden somethang happens.
Were all human & make mistakes we have our own minds from being raised from whoever raised & they are not perfect too.
You learn as you live & repeat no mistakes orless you believe it is right to do so.
You understand this then I am sure you can make a right decision & I am sure because I know Val is also human & made mistakes too that being honest & knowing what you did wrong a forgiveness can be a sure thang.
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Dreaming of a Better World
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RedSoxFan3
Admirable
Legendary Hero
Fan of Red Sox
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posted August 30, 2002 05:11 AM |
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I made a mistake ..trusting someone I shouldn't have with my password..I was very naieve doing that and I truly feel sorry for it.
Although nothing bad came out of it I feel I don't deserve to be a mod. You were right..I'm a bad mod
I don't mind stepping doing from the mod-position ..but I do care about the truth. I was wrong to lie about it but some people advised me to shut up about it and I did.
Again a wrong decision.
So now I come clean and hope you guys can forgive me. I did not mean to do any harm my intentions were always good and still are. I love this community and want the best for it and if that means I have to step down I will do so.
My trust has been betrayed and I feel really stupid and sad because of my naieve behaviour. My eyes are opened and I do not like what I see.
Some of you told me to stop thinking with my heart..well I can't help it..I guess I'm just a hopeless case.
I truly wish all of you well
Love sincerely Romana
You shouldn't resign. Nothing happened, so you learned your lesson to not give out passwords. Let's move on and continue as mod.
btw if you still want to resign can you give me your pass first so I can finally what's inside the Mod Squad.
Or at least get a cool screenshot of the room.
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Go Red Sox!
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