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veco
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who am I?
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posted April 28, 2009 11:05 PM |
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Me likes happy endings
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none of my business.
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Doomforge
Admirable
Undefeatable Hero
Retired Hero
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posted April 28, 2009 11:07 PM |
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I never get happy endings, so I came to like sad endings.
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We reached to the stars and everything is now ours
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MightyMage
Honorable
Legendary Hero
of INSANITY and DELICIOUSNESS
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posted April 29, 2009 06:21 AM |
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Go read my first post again and pretend that was the only thing I posted in this thread.
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Though I must still bow
in awe for the awesomeness that is
MightyMage. For he is all I could ever
want to be! - OhforfSake
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Mytical
Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
Chaos seeking Harmony
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posted April 29, 2009 06:31 AM |
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The rollercoaster called love. Somebody said it is better to love and lost then never loved at all. Sometimes I agree with them, sometimes I wish they had been taken out back and shot. Anyhow, you ever need somebody to talk to MM, I am but an HCM away.
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Message received.
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Azagal
Honorable
Undefeatable Hero
Smooth Snake
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posted April 29, 2009 06:42 AM |
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@ Arcax
Yoooosha~~~~ nice. The really cool part is that you actually forgave her before it turned out to be a lie anyway. Heehe you may want to not take such things so serious in the future anymore though .
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Go read my first post again and pretend that was the only thing I posted in this thread.
Aw no... again? Well people have already said so much clever stuff to you and more people will gladly listen to you and give you advice than I've seen in any similar thread so far, so what can I say? I'm really sorry it happend to have turned out like this.
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Doomforge
Admirable
Undefeatable Hero
Retired Hero
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posted April 29, 2009 02:07 PM |
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Don't worry MM, just let's get back to the happy single nerd club together. *wink*
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We reached to the stars and everything is now ours
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Corribus
Hero of Order
The Abyss Staring Back at You
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posted April 29, 2009 03:31 PM |
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Edited by Corribus at 15:32, 29 Apr 2009.
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@Mytical
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Somebody said it is better to love and lost then never loved at all. Sometimes I agree with them, sometimes I wish they had been taken out back and shot.
Not much of a romantic, are you? 
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I'm sick of following my dreams. I'm just going to ask them where they're goin', and hook up with them later. -Mitch Hedberg
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Arcax
Promising
Famous Hero
Its quite hot inside...
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posted April 29, 2009 03:40 PM |
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@Azagal Yes, cool but it was really hard...the whole world collapsed in a moment. But thanks to this experience I've made my relationship even more stabile and valuable.
@Doomforge Cheer up. She wasnt the last girl in your life and you know it. Maybe she just wasnt the one?
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Doomforge
Admirable
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Retired Hero
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posted April 29, 2009 03:44 PM |
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Of course she wasn't the one (although I don't believe in the ones), I didn't put much attention to that anyway, it was just for fun and for a change.
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We reached to the stars and everything is now ours
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emilsn
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posted April 29, 2009 10:19 PM |
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Who lost the girl? MM or Doomforge - I thought MM was doing grey and Doomforge was out looking for another one?!
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Don't walk behind me; I may not
lead. Don't walk in front of me;
I may not follow. Just walk
beside me and be my friend.
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DagothGares
Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
No gods or kings
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posted April 29, 2009 10:27 PM |
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@Mytical
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Somebody said it is better to love and lost then never loved at all. Sometimes I agree with them, sometimes I wish they had been taken out back and shot.
Not much of a romantic, are you?
Actually, mtical is one of the biggest romantics in HC, but it'd be rude to point out why
And we're here for you, MM!
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If you have any more questions, go to Dagoth Cares.
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MightyMage
Honorable
Legendary Hero
of INSANITY and DELICIOUSNESS
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posted April 29, 2009 10:30 PM |
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Crap, no no no. You guys misunderstood me. My post was in responce to Doomforge. He said he likes sad endings so I was telling him to go back and read my first post then pretend I posted nothing after that.
Things are good with me and Jasmine. I'm happy to know that she isn't some gold digger. Now that I'm jobless and poor, she helps pay for my gas and has treated me to dinner a couple times as well.
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Though I must still bow
in awe for the awesomeness that is
MightyMage. For he is all I could ever
want to be! - OhforfSake
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lucky_dwarf
Promising
Supreme Hero
Visiting
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posted April 29, 2009 10:38 PM |
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Things are good with me and Jasmine. I'm happy to know that she isn't some gold digger. Now that I'm jobless and poor, she helps pay for my gas and has treated me to dinner a couple times as well.
daaang thats nice of her 
i havent been following this thread much so... doomforge wont be geting his sad ending then?
And you might save some bucks using the bus.
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So much has changed in my absence.
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mvassilev
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Undefeatable Hero
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posted May 01, 2009 11:18 PM |
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On a related subject...
For some reason, we had a discussion at school about whether "true love exists". Somehow, we got onto the subject of commitment.
Question: If you get married to someone, and stay faithful, won't you think about the opportunities that you're missing - you maybe could've married someone better, etc.?
My answer: Think of it this way. Say you bought a PS3 (indignant shouts of "women aren't like game consoles!"). Then, after playing it for a while, you wonder if an Xbox 360 might have been a better purchase. This is useless thought, because your chances of finding a good system wouldn't be any different, plus there's the friction involved in getting rid of your PS3, getting a 360, etc. So there's no point in it.
Friend 1 (female): Plus they have most of the same games. The only thing that's different is the controller.
Friend 2 (male): And if you don't buy one, you stick with the PC - porn.
It was a good analogy, I think.
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Perhaps it would be useful to contrast a good relationship and a bad one. I have observed both, and here are my findings.
A and B (if you want more creative names, I will provide them). A has been one of my closest friends for the last four years. To imagine A, think of me, but tall, less of a jerk, and less eager to express his opinions. B is a girl two years younger than him. She's like someone straight out of teh internets (kind of). She likes "The Game" and is one of the greatest proponents of my friends' "inside jokes". Both A and B are in the high school band, and both are very good (not just according to me - they both score well at competitions). And they're both drum majors. Anyway, they started to like each other, and then started going out. And they're happy. In fact, it's rather heartwarming to see them. And, unlike what could happen in a relationship, the "brethren vs. wenches" conflict did not arise, as the girl in question was already one of his (and our) friends, and it just proceeded from there.
C and D, on the other hand, is/was (you never know what tense to use) the worst train wreck imaginable. C is another member of the band (I have a whole bunch of friends from there - in fact, all of my friends are either band members or ex-members, but I was never in band) and he's also good - except for his relationships. Actually, C is rather an idiot in many ways. He is a fanatic conservative, but subscribes to the labor theory of value. And he's a religious fundamentalist, which is also part of his relationship problems. D is a nice girl two years younger than him, who is also in band. Anyway, they first started going out when C, A, and I were in the ninth grade, and C made a ridiculously obsessive website with pictures (not those kinds of pictures) of D all over it and wrote "C loves D" everywhere. He also claimed that they made out for five hours while watching Fox News. There was also an incident in which C bought D a thong, which he claims he threw away, but D's mom ended up with it. After some time, they broke up. C then briefly dated a girl from out of town. That relationship ended after she cheated on him with her female cousin. So C went back to D. And he began to brainwash her. He had sex with her, and his brother walked in on them. She started crying. Instead of doing something a reasonable person would do, C took his brother aside and said, "That's what I'm supposed to do." There was also this exchange:
D: I like to mow the lawn.
C: That's okay, as long as you have my dinner ready on time.
Funny, right? Except they were both completely serious. D became more lethargic. Eventually, she broke up with him - but the next day, they were back together. This process repeated several times for a month. Then, she made it final. C was absolutely broken - he was obsessed with her to an unhealthy degree. D, however, became a much more happy and fun person.
Then she became close with some guy from the nearby college. They weren't (and aren't) actually dating, and from what I've heard, the guy is completely harmless. But C's animosity towards this guy grew to an extreme degree. And C turned A into his (C's) impromptu therapist - texting him at all hours about his obsession. One day, C was laughing maniacally and saying that he was going to beat up the college guy. Another day, he watched D and the college guy eat at a fast food place in a car - for an hour. Then, after they started driving to a nearby town where the college is - he followed them, and called A, saying he was going to beat up the college guy. Anyway, halfway there, C's truck got stuck in a ditch. He sat there for some time, contemplating his situation. Then he drove back to town, deciding not to stalk them. (Note that C is in the Army, and would suffer consequences if he were to actually beat someone up. And the Army is the only bright spot in his life.) On April Fools' Day, C texted A and suggested that the former go and hide in D's car, and jump out whenever she would get in. A rightly told him that this was a bad, bad idea. Also, C was at some army thing and got really drunk. He told one of my friends, "I got really drunk this weekend and removed all my thoughts of D." When we talked about this, A said, "That's not what he told me. He said he got really drunk and texted bad things to D."
Though C usually only talks to A about his problems (if I were A, as I have advised him numerous times, I would just tell C to stop being a loser and get over it), when A was gone, C talked to me instead. He explained some of his problems. "In the Book of Corinthians," he said, "It says that you may only have immoral relations with one woman before marriage." I thought that, under the circumstances, he could ignore it, and told him so. "Well, I'm not going to ignore it," he said, "Besides, if I ever have kids - which I won't, now, since I will never love another - how am I supposed to tell my kids that I had sex with someone other than their mom?" (WTF? Indeed. Is this a common topic of conversation people have with their kids?)
So there you have it. The Awesome Epic Win relationship - and the Fail one. Draw your conclusions.
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veco
Legendary Hero
who am I?
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posted May 06, 2009 11:52 PM |
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TheDeath
Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
with serious business
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posted May 06, 2009 11:56 PM |
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LOL mvass people there are weird. Glad I didn't experience anything weird myself yet lol
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mvassilev
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posted May 07, 2009 12:14 AM |
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Death, here's a serious question (and I would still like people to comment on my above contrast) - here's my question: have you ever had a close friendship or relationship with anyone your age? Because - and I mean absolutely no offense by this - you sometimes act like some kind of completely detached being.
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Elvin
Admirable
Omnipresent Hero
Endless Revival
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posted May 07, 2009 12:41 AM |
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Only thing I can advice is stay the heck away from people who exude negativity. Friends or not they will sooner or later start transferring this negativity and other insecurities to you. Or annoyance at the very least.
As for relationships before college, they rarely mean something substantial. People at that age hardly know themselves much less what they want and are prone to drastic changes, immature decisions. Few relationships can survive this period. Often it comes to the point that the couple or at least one of them will want out but stay because he is afraid of being alone or afraid to hurt the other. Then it's only a matter of time. That is not saying this cannot happen to older people, there are various degrees of maturity 
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TheDeath
Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
with serious business
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posted May 07, 2009 12:46 AM |
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Death, here's a serious question (and I would still like people to comment on my above contrast) - here's my question: have you ever had a close friendship or relationship with anyone your age? Because - and I mean absolutely no offense by this - you sometimes act like some kind of completely detached being.
Most people were 'normal', nothing crazy like stalking or other obsessed stuff like that lol. I never actually experienced any kind of obsession (and I mean this looking at others, not myself of course). Now, as far as I understood from your story, it was your 'friends' that were weirdos. No, I didn't have any such friendship with weirdos.
And of course, I've never been "obsessed" like 'C' in your story with any girl lol. Would you be? Just asking
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mvassilev
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posted May 07, 2009 12:59 AM |
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As for relationships before college, they rarely mean something substantial.
Indeed. Which is why it surprised me that A, who is going to a university on the east coast in less than four months, has chosen to pursue a relationship with B, someone who will stay here in Noplace two more years, and even then is unlikely to join him at that university.
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