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winterfate
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posted June 15, 2009 03:12 AM |
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@Fauch: Well not all women are like that. But quite a few are.
And yes, I've been manipulated mercilessly by women before. So. I know what I'm talking about.
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If you supposedly care about someone, then don't push them out of your life. Acting like you're not doing it doesn't exempt you from what I just said. - Winterfate
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mvassilev
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posted June 15, 2009 03:22 AM |
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To say that girls manipulate more than guys is incorrect. Both genders manipulate fairly equally - they just do it differently. And some among both don't manipulate at all.
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Fauch
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posted June 15, 2009 03:23 AM |
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Edited by Fauch at 03:39, 15 Jun 2009.
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I hope it's only a few of them. and not a majority. maybe it depends on what you consider manipulating.
I was thinking about something. so there is something which pushes some of us to manipulate other people. but is manipulating the proof of a superior spirit (in the sense it gives you a power over people) or of an inferior spirit (in the sense that you rely on lies to get what you want)
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mvassilev
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posted June 15, 2009 03:57 AM |
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It depends on what we mean by "manipulate". With the usual negative connotation, it implies a parasitic spirit. But it is possible to manipulate someone in a positive way - inspire them, uplift them, etc.
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emilsn
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posted June 15, 2009 10:00 AM |
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Hmm... I must be dating an alien...
My GF is never mad or irritated with me I haven't seen her mad yet maybe stressed but not mad.. She is actully very happy =)
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Doomforge
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posted June 15, 2009 11:37 AM |
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Quote: Of course, Dagoth. She's ALWAYS too busy for me.
Uncle Doomforge says: DUMP TIME.
First sign of a fail-relationship: she's too busy for you!
Women that are "always busy" although they have no real personal interests or really anything worth spending time on make me laugh. (applies to men too, in case you think I'm over-sexist )
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DagothGares
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No gods or kings
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posted June 15, 2009 12:23 PM |
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Doom,pay attention! She isn't his GF or do you dump regular friends all the time for such arbitrary reasons?
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emilsn
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posted June 15, 2009 12:35 PM |
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In my relationship it is my GF who have the busy schedule.
And I don't mind. She has a tons of friends, she goes to taek wondo twice a week, she is a swimming instructor, she takes care of some kids and then she got school + me. = No time at all
So I respect that. and I am grateful for that and I like that she got more to do than me, who sits at home playing wow all the time
I won't dumb her for that. She got a life that is fair and we make time for eachother whenever it is posible, we try to punch in a few hours for eachother
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Doomforge
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posted June 15, 2009 12:48 PM |
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She isn't? Ah, sry then, must have misread something
Emil, that's fine. The only problem is when people don't have any hobbies and interests, yet play the "always-busy" role. I can't stand it!
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Mytical
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Chaos seeking Harmony
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posted June 15, 2009 12:56 PM |
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Actually I am confused because I agree with Doomforge on a matter of relationships. (No offense meant Doom). If she is too busy for you, time to become to busy for her Winterfate. Don't wait around for her. Go out, talk to other people, live your life. If she contacts you, by all means go ahead and chat. Otherwise? Don't lose a moments sleep over it. People drift apart all the time. Time to move on and make new friends.
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Doomforge
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posted June 15, 2009 01:17 PM |
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None taken, nice to see we finally agree about something when it comes to relationships
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emilsn
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posted June 25, 2009 04:23 PM |
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What kinda boyfriend/Girlfriend are you?
I am the over protective, worried, a little sticky boyfriend. maybe a little sensetive
But I am also the romantic, who buys flowers and whispers sweet words into her ears. I like to suprice sometimes
How about you?
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DagothGares
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posted June 25, 2009 04:38 PM |
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I am quite a romantic(in quite a few ways, but w/e), but can be very obsessive
I usually just put walls in between me and everyone else to prevent bad and sudden things from happening, though.
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JoonasTo
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What if Elvin was female?
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posted June 26, 2009 07:16 AM |
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Doomforge
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posted June 29, 2009 10:30 AM |
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A small update. I've been dating some girls, but nothing spectacular up to this point: there is always something in the way. Last time I've dated quite a nice girl, she was really attractive and we even had a good time, but her lifestyle is totally meh to me. Parties, drinking, smoking weed & cigarettes, gangsta... Extremely repelling. Another no-no. Aww.
There is one hope for me... two actually. I'm going to date two girls now, and they both seem very interesting personality-wise, and happen to be physically attractive too What can screw things up? Well, the silence, of course. I wouldn't consider a potential girlfriend that I can't have a good conversation with. No, it doesn't have to be anything intellectually demanding or smth, it can be anything, just NO SILENT MOMENTS please... >_>
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TheDeath
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posted June 30, 2009 12:33 AM |
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You're too picky.
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DagothGares
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No gods or kings
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posted June 30, 2009 12:39 AM |
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Spot on, death,
You immediately conside rsomeone undateable when she's a little shy at first? What kind of monster are you?
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Doomforge
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posted June 30, 2009 09:01 AM |
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it never works anyway. And I can distinguish shyness from lack of ability to talk you know. Shyness is fine, having nothing to say is not.
No, I'm not picky. Do you jump on the first girl that dates you, Death?
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Minion
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posted June 30, 2009 12:11 PM |
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Silence can be good, but not at the start of a relationship. Heh, not the best date... But I personally love that part in a relationship when you don't have to blabber all the time anymore and you can just be silent and lay next to another <3
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Lexxan
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posted June 30, 2009 01:22 PM |
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Quote: No, I'm not picky. Do you jump on the first girl that dates you, Death?
I think he will.
Pretty much like grabbing what he can grab
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Coincidence? I think not!!!!
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