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Lexxan
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posted March 30, 2011 04:19 PM |
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I lost access to Internet on my PC, so I actually cannot log onto MSN/SKYPE anymore -__-. and I'm too lazy to fix it. Yeah, soz 
/OT.
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selcy
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posted March 30, 2011 04:20 PM |
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Sex just complicates things so in some ways getting to know someone on the internet makes it easier and not everyone tries to deceive the other person.
With webcam chat it would be pretty hard to try and be someone your not like a 50 year old guy pretending to be a 14 year old girl for example. I know webcams can cause problems to as some guys thing its fun to show a certain part of the body on cam to complete strangers but if that happens just turn the cam off and block them.
As with any relationship unless your willing to give and take you might as well not bother.
I am involved in an online relationship and we make time for each other every day we send emails, go on voice and webcam chat, we go on facebook together and we are now planning the next step of our relationship but due to work and money it all takes time. As with any relationship the best way is to take things slowly.
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Fauch
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posted March 30, 2011 05:23 PM |
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we are now planning the next step of our relationship but due to work and money it all takes time
I just don't get why it has to be so complicated. life isn't very complicated. I mean, if you remove all our organizations, systems, institutions, etc...
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selcy
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posted March 30, 2011 05:26 PM |
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Well it is complicated and takes money when I live in England and he lives in America and we both have commitments like work etc.
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angelito
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proud father of a princess
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posted March 30, 2011 08:55 PM |
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The troll was penalized (several times) and silenced.
I won't delete his posts, because then the whole thread would look like a mess.
If the thread opener wants to start the same thread again, feel free to do that, then I will delete this one.
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ohforfsake
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Initiate
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posted March 30, 2011 09:24 PM |
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If the thread opener wants to start the same thread again, feel free to do that, then I will delete this one.
Thank you for your offer. That is kind of you.
Since the thread have, in my opinion, developed in a very pleasent way since the "onslaught" I'd prefer this one to continue.
((And of course no one is ever going to post in the thread again then )))
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Keksimaton
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Talk to the hand
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posted March 30, 2011 10:00 PM |
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Well, if you just tell her that you kind of have a crush on her and don't go around suggesting anything that might sound creepy, you'll get some weight off your chest and get to see how she responds.
If you face horrible rejection, that's just a great chance to get over your crush. 
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selcy
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posted March 30, 2011 10:33 PM |
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I would say just be yourself but then that's dangerous  .
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meroe
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Basically Smurfette
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posted March 30, 2011 10:37 PM |
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Edited by meroe at 22:38, 30 Mar 2011.
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Forfy ... don't even think about anything long term just yet. What's most important is getting over your shyness around her and the best was to do that is to talk.
If the two of you 'hit it off' ... then you can take the next step.
Good luck hon 
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as she sounds sometimes, she'd
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blink of an eye - Kipshasz
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Doomforge
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posted March 30, 2011 10:43 PM |
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Once you get to actually meeting her IRL, offs, I can write you a bit of useful tricks
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ohforfsake
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posted March 31, 2011 10:50 AM |
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Thanks all of you!
@Doom
Well I'm not a big enough a fool to pass such an offer
You just gotta hope it hasn't been you I've been talking about all this time! (just kidding)
@The finish KeksiMATON
Well, as I feel right now, I'm not really interested in the crush to go away, more interested in it playing out in a favorable way. Still trying to look at it from a neutral viewpoint, what you say seems very logical and I think you're right. So if nothing has happened for some months (maybe?) and the feelings are still there, I should probably just talk it through with her. I'm certain that she won't run screaming away anyhow, if she'll give me the cold shoulder though, I don't know.
@Selcy
Funny
I guess I'll stop sexyfying stuff up. Though it might be fun, I think it might have gotten a little tiresome by now. (Assuming that was what you refered to)
@Meroe
Well, you know what they say, if you've something delicious, you save it until the end
As you suggested earlier, that's exactly what I'll do. Then I'll see how it develops from there!
Edit:
Haha acu, I think maybe not
Well at least not before I have been with her for some time I suppose. (Again kidding)
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Aculias
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Pretty Boy Angel Sacraficer
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posted March 31, 2011 10:52 AM |
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Of for sakes! Why cant you just install a golden showers
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OhforfSake
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posted April 07, 2011 11:28 AM |
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So time pass and things change. Ever since evi wrote about her different behaviour outside the internet, it got me thinking.
She could be very very different, from outside the internet.
To quote my own thoughts from then:
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As such, maybe, what I also have not considered, is that how the person behaves on the internet and how the person behaves in real life can be very different.
In case you have a more regular contact, through web cams, etc. I suppose this change in behaviour evens out.
Usually at this time, the emotions are at a height, but right now I don't really feel anything. Which might be good, otherwise I'd have tried to set up a cam chat with her, to find out if she's just as awesome as she seems to be.
As of such, I think I can finally lay this crush behind me. It has been going on since mid february, I think, and eventhough we've become very good friends (in my opinion), I don't think our friendship will last, as I slowly become more and more inactive.
Thanks for all the feedback, thoughts and suggestions! You guys are awesome, and I'm truely blessed to be a part of such a great community!
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Fauch
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posted April 07, 2011 03:27 PM |
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you think you will not regret it?
you talked to her about it?
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OhforfSake
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Initiate
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posted April 07, 2011 04:05 PM |
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I'm not afraid of regretting.
There isn't really anything to talk with her about. To her, I'll just be another username on the net.
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Fauch
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posted April 07, 2011 04:15 PM |
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ah, she doesn't know that you considered meeting her?
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OhforfSake
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Initiate
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posted April 07, 2011 04:20 PM |
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Nope. I just wrote with her.
Was rather pleasent and still is of course.
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