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Elvin
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posted February 27, 2014 09:30 AM |
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Something I need to tell you
It all begun a few months ago. I had returned from a wonderful journey to Antalya, a family problem that long plagued us had finally been taken care of and life was good. Next thing I know, I am staring at my father's lifeless body. It all happened suddenly, there were no warnings, there was nothing to be done. He left behind a family business that was demanding every inch of the way and there was no time to waste, the show had to go on. It was hard but we poured ourselves into it and month after month, the expenses were covered. Now things are getting progressively harder. A friend of my father looked at the company numbers and believes this cannot go on for long. So here I am staring the depths of a bottomless chasm. Should we fail the bank will come for my house. My property. Whatever they can get their hands on. I am looking for solutions but honestly I am afraid. Wish me luck, I don't know what will happen.
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veco
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who am I?
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posted February 27, 2014 10:40 AM |
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Best of luck man, I don't even what say 
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War-overlord
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posted February 27, 2014 10:47 AM |
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Best of luck Elvin. Even if our support is only morale, you've got it every inch of the way.
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Storm-Giant
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posted February 27, 2014 01:06 PM |
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You know we are here for anything you need. Stay strong and keep fighting, mate.
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OhforfSake
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Initiate
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posted February 27, 2014 01:29 PM |
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I'm really sorry to hear this. I don't know how to help. No one deserves to go through that.
I wish you the best.
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artu
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My BS sensor is tingling again
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posted February 27, 2014 02:10 PM |
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Edited by artu at 14:10, 27 Feb 2014.
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My condolences for your father, maybe you should seek advice from an accountant you know and trust.
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Sandman
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posted February 27, 2014 02:33 PM |
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Sorry to hear you are having such a hard time. I wish i had some way to help you.
Keep positive, good luck to you mate.
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mvassilev
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posted February 27, 2014 03:18 PM |
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My condolences.
Can you sell the business and get a job elsewhere?
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JoonasTo
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What if Elvin was female?
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posted February 27, 2014 03:21 PM |
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With Greece's current economy?
Good luck with 
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Minion
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posted February 27, 2014 04:06 PM |
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My condolences.
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kipshasz
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Elvin's Darkside
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posted February 27, 2014 04:55 PM |
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condolences.
You know, you can arrange another mass riot in Greece. Learn from Ukrainian bandits.
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fred79
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posted February 27, 2014 05:21 PM |
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that's some sad news, elvin. life'll throw this kind of **** at you; how you pull through will define your strengths and weaknesses, and still make you stronger for it. i wish you the best.
i also wish i had more substantial advice that you could actually use to help yourself. but it doesn't sound good. the way i see it, if the ****heads are coming for everything you have, it's time to change tactics, and make a lot of money any way you can, by whatever means necessary. if you acquire the cash needed, get a lawyer(s), so that you can cut your losses before the company takes you with it. don't put any more money in the sinking business than you have to, family owned or no.
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Anavi
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posted February 27, 2014 05:41 PM |
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condolences
Good luck with things.In this kind of situations only thing that you can do is to be strong.That is better option than to hang yourself or to sell your kidney.
I know to it sucks but you will make it
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Geny
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What if Elvin was female?
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posted February 27, 2014 08:42 PM |
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Good luck. Wish I could offer you more.
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JoonasTo
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What if Elvin was female?
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posted February 27, 2014 08:44 PM |
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Geny
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What if Elvin was female?
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posted February 27, 2014 08:46 PM |
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I'm doing better for myself lately, but not that good.
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Celfious
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posted February 27, 2014 10:51 PM |
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Edited by Celfious at 22:55, 27 Feb 2014.
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Elvin hard times happen but I have to say it seems to me you are going through one of the most testing you may encounter in your life.
Is it possible to step back and assess all of the options you are aware of? All of your options with the business, and property(ies).
A lot of times people just need someone to understand and empathize. I don't see you asking for ideas or solutions from us, but I will say if I have a large mental (and/or written) list of things that need to be done, and I am so confused or overwhelmed I don't know where to start, then 9 times out of 10 when and if I simply start handling anything even small then the list overall will lessen and become easier to get through -without so much various clutter- . The small accomplishment of anything will spur a certain energy as well.
Clarity, breathe, focus etc
I believe you can make it in one way or another whatever option you settle for or choose.
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Elvin
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Endless Revival
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posted February 27, 2014 11:12 PM |
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A wise thing to say, that is what I am trying to do. But some days I am bombarded with so many tasks, many of which interdependent, that it's hard to keep track of everything. This is making me irritable and snappy. And craaazy! Whoohoo!
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Tsar-Ivor
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posted February 28, 2014 02:02 AM |
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Can't you just liquidate it all?
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OmegaDestroyer
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Fox or Chicken?
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posted February 28, 2014 05:08 PM |
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Hang in there, Apostolis.
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