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Doomforge
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posted December 03, 2009 10:16 AM |
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Wow, mvass uses words such as "auspicious". Have it not been for Titan Quest, I'd have to use a dictionary
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posted December 03, 2009 12:09 PM |
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I'm feeling really bad today, I desperatlyneed to talk to her but I don't know what to say, or even if she want's to talk to me, and besides I'm very concerned on what she'd might say if I went talking to her.
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william
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posted December 03, 2009 12:13 PM |
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I'd wait until she starts talking to you. Don't go out and try to talk to her, that might come across as kind of desperate or something.
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posted December 03, 2009 12:20 PM |
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ok, I'll try that, but if she hasn't spoken to me unti monday I'm gonna talk to her then.
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posted December 03, 2009 01:50 PM |
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Edited by Fauch at 13:55, 03 Dec 2009.
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you are / were friends, what's the problem of speaking with her?
Quote: Considering the danger of crazy stalkers, it's not that crazy.
have you met many of them?
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Carcity
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posted December 03, 2009 03:49 PM |
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well considering I might have freaked her out I think she might not want to be friend with me anymore, although I'm not sure. But today and half of yesterday has been the worst days off my life.
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DagothGares
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posted December 03, 2009 04:11 PM |
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Quote: well considering I might have freaked her out I think she might not want to be friend with me anymore, although I'm not sure. But today and half of yesterday has been the worst days off my life.
There'll be worse ones, carcity.
On a more serious note: Just try to stay strong. Stick with your other allies, while you await her response.
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Doomforge
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posted December 03, 2009 04:19 PM |
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Quote: well considering I might have freaked her out I think she might not want to be friend with me anymore, although I'm not sure. But today and half of yesterday has been the worst days off my life.
Don't worry bud. Best thing is that you've taken interest in dating early... you will probably get your chance before others do. Which is awesome. Later on, best girls are already taken and you're left with nothing. It's boys like you who end up victorious in the end.
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posted December 03, 2009 04:21 PM |
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Then go talk to her Carcity. Try to explain and it'll be good. But no blacking out again it won't help you with your goal.
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william
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posted December 03, 2009 04:24 PM |
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I really don't think it's a good idea for Carcity to be going and talking to her. He should wait until she comes and talks to him.
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DagothGares
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posted December 03, 2009 04:26 PM |
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Quote:
Quote: well considering I might have freaked her out I think she might not want to be friend with me anymore, although I'm not sure. But today and half of yesterday has been the worst days off my life.
Don't worry bud. Best thing is that you've taken interest in dating early... you will probably get your chance before others do. Which is awesome. Later on, best girls are already taken and you're left with nothing. It's boys like you who end up victorious in the end.
This is bad advice, I recommend you don't listen to this.
EDIT: azagal gives the best advice. I also feel for william, but I think that confronting the issues head-on (apply directly to the forehead) in life is the best way to handle it. Obviously, I don't live by my own philosophy, but that doesn't mean I consider it any worse than the way I live in pratice.
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william
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posted December 03, 2009 04:28 PM |
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Yeah. I'd really recommend dating when you're a bit older and more mature. And Doomforge, I guess where you live, most of the older girls are taken? Come to Australia then. lol
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Doomforge
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posted December 03, 2009 04:29 PM |
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Dagoth: What's so bad in my advice? Azzie actually encourages City to do something. Not listening to me would mean advising City to give up on girls for a while. Is that what you meant?
Will: In Poland, almost every girl that is 15yo had relationship already.
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william
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posted December 03, 2009 04:30 PM |
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Lol, that's ridiculous. I don't see many down here that are in a relationship and are 15. Oh well.
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DagothGares
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posted December 03, 2009 04:40 PM |
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through, from talking to carcity I can deduce he has a pretty healthy view on relationships, albeit a bit idealistic. In a very cruel way this is how he can get experience with relationships, though I don't support doom's view of "rushing to get the right girl". In fact, I support mvass in that it shouldn't be a priority at all. Let relationships happen.
I'm a very fragile person though. maybe it's just that I can't afford to actively put my energy in looking for love. So if you find yourself agreeing much with doom. Hell, he may be right for all I know. I know I'm wrong on this sort of thing most of the time. I never had someone who would tell me what is right. I'm just saying that I would never advise this to myself a few years ago. Go when you're ready, go when you find someone you find someone you ant to start something with. Don't go rushing. tha's all.
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Doomforge
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posted December 03, 2009 06:58 PM |
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Australia seems a nice country then. Perhaps you even have some virgins left at the age of 16?
Dagoth, you seem more of a bitter man than even I do Cheer up. Besides, I don't think I'm encouraging City to rush for love... he seems genuinly interested, thus ready. What else should he wait for, until there is no nice girl left to take interest in? Even if in his country people take it slower than in Poland, where a girl not having a relationship by the age of 15 is considered a freak in school (or a really childish girl. Well, such also appear, it's not that _ALL_ girls have relationships at that age, ofc... but the majority does, I believe), it's still better to... you know... be the first. If you are ready, there is pretty much nothing you put at risk as long as you are careful.
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posted December 03, 2009 07:22 PM |
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Well, I'll probably do like Azagal says, she deserves an explanation.
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DagothGares
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posted December 03, 2009 07:24 PM |
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I'm not bitter
Better to be the first? First one wins? It's a race?
I had no idea.
Go and rush for love, doom, because maybe at some point there'll be none left who can love you
Oh, well, it's all craziness
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Doomforge
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posted December 03, 2009 08:55 PM |
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It's easy to understand. Imagine there is a nice girl, and 10 men around her, also you. You tell me it's not a race? fine...
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DagothGares
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posted December 03, 2009 09:09 PM |
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Quote: It's easy to understand. Imagine there is a nice girl, and 10 men around her, also you. You tell me it's not a race? fine...
I have rather different standards for women than most other boys, I have noticed
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