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Corribus
Hero of Order
The Abyss Staring Back at You
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posted May 30, 2012 03:03 PM |
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Reading this thread sure is "fun".
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fauch
Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
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posted May 30, 2012 05:13 PM |
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Edited by fauch at 17:40, 30 May 2012.
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I don't know if you do it on purpose tsar, but I sometimes noticed you have quite a special way to ask questions. like it is more of a judgement than a question. though I'm not sure if you do it often, I rarely see your posts.
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Most people of that age would take the opportunity to get drunk and party.
I guess most of them didn't wait until their 21st birthday.
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kandhoshlo
Tavern Dweller
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posted June 05, 2012 09:22 AM |
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Sometimes Love can make you feel lonely, so lonely. This happens when you broke up with your parnter, when one fo your Children died, etc. You are grieving for this, whatever the reason was, this is certainly an effect of your Love. Luckily you have always someone/something that can comfort you and save the day, again through true love
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NoobX
Undefeatable Hero
Now, this is a paradox...
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posted June 05, 2012 06:30 PM |
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I've got a problem! I... fell in love, but I made a promise that I never would and now I can't tell anyone. What should I do?!
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Minion
Legendary Hero
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posted June 05, 2012 06:36 PM |
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I promised to never talk to my parents when I was 7. Lasted for a day. Don't take childhood promises so seriously.
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"These friends probably started using condoms after having produced the most optimum amount of offsprings. Kudos to them for showing at least some restraint" - Tsar-ivor
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Darkshadow
Legendary Hero
Cerise Princess
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posted June 05, 2012 06:41 PM |
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I've got a problem! I... fell in love, but I made a promise that I never would and now I can't tell anyone. What should I do?!
I made a similar promise 6 years ago.
I keep that promise to this day.
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NoobX
Undefeatable Hero
Now, this is a paradox...
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posted June 05, 2012 06:42 PM |
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Well... I kinda promised it a year ago... TO EVERYONE! And I was serious, but now I feel kind of... strange.
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Ghost said:
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OhforfSake
Promising
Legendary Hero
Initiate
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posted June 05, 2012 07:04 PM |
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I... fell in love, but I made a promise that I never would and now I can't tell anyone.
You just told us, you know?
Seriously though, you haven't been alive for 12 billion years, then you get some 100 years alive on Earth and that may be all you ever get. It's equivalent to any single random second during one hundred years and you've already spend more than 10% of it. It's up to you how much you value this little time you at least are likely to get.
So why did you choose to make this promise? A big deal of self respect is to consider future situation and make sure to avoid, or at least not on purpose put yourself in, unwanted situations.
If you had a good reason back then to make this promise and you haven't changed it, then either you still have a good reason to do so, or you at least had a good reason not to change your promise. In which case you should respect that, if it really was (and still is) a good reason.
If not then who cares about promises made for reasons you in reality don't care about? All it shows is how much you respect yourself when willing to put yourself in such situations, which doesn't matter if it hinders what you really want.
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Speaking about love. You know in one way it'd be really nice to have someone to be really close to, being in eachothers comfort and be able to live life together with. On the other hand, I can't help it but get the impression that a large percentage of people would not be 'for me', in the sense the relationship would be horrible. In which sense I wouldn't miss it at all.
In a way, at least for me, I seem to see a lot of potential in a lot of people and almost dream about how much good we could do together, but when looking at it again, it is so extremely unlikely we'd actually ever hit it off very well. I mean, I don't even know you. Odds are you and I have such a different outlook on life, that it was silly of me to ever consider the possibility of 'us'.
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NoobX
Undefeatable Hero
Now, this is a paradox...
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posted June 05, 2012 07:16 PM |
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I made the promise because I already fell in love when I was 10 and it lasted for a year, but I told that to everyone and now I get frustrated whenever someone mentions it because I'm a bit ashamed (I acted like a fool back then).
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OhforfSake
Promising
Legendary Hero
Initiate
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posted June 05, 2012 07:20 PM |
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Well if you think it was for foolish reasons, then now (in general) is a good time to change it. Yeah shame can make one stick to bad decisions, but remember it's your life, not theirs. At least you'd know in the future not to make decisions based on poor judgement or at least avoid sticking to bad decisions for so long.
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NoobX
Undefeatable Hero
Now, this is a paradox...
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posted June 05, 2012 07:25 PM |
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Uhh... Did I mention that it is almost impossible for me to break any of my promises? (this is my major promise, not like "I'll stop eating that much meat")
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OhforfSake
Promising
Legendary Hero
Initiate
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posted June 05, 2012 07:33 PM |
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A promise is a big deal to you, yet you make them for poor reasons. Don't you see something which doesn't fit there?
You can be stubborn about it, and waste your life in the process, it's really only you and all those who love you, you hurt. You could also do what you think is the right thing to do.
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Tsar-Ivor
Promising
Legendary Hero
Scourge of God
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posted June 05, 2012 07:35 PM |
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Or make 'loopholes' in your own promises like moi, and you'll never have to break them. Id est make your damn promises flexible, what's with people and this all or nothing decision making?
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OhforfSake
Promising
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Initiate
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posted June 05, 2012 07:37 PM |
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Do you feel like people thrust you often tsar?
Edit: Good edit you made btw.!
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Tsar-Ivor
Promising
Legendary Hero
Scourge of God
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posted June 05, 2012 07:39 PM |
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It's not their thrusting I'm worried about, I can handle it, the question is, can they handle the retaliation, my thrusts tend to be 'over-powered'.
How 'bout you tell me this 'promise' and then I'll transform it into something that we can work with, eh?
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"No laughs were had. There is only shame and sadness." Jenny
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NoobX
Undefeatable Hero
Now, this is a paradox...
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posted June 05, 2012 07:43 PM |
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It wasn't a poor reason - I had a bad love life experience and I don't feel really Ok, even if I think about telling someone about it.
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OhforfSake
Promising
Legendary Hero
Initiate
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posted June 05, 2012 07:48 PM |
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Any foolish reasons are most likely a poor reason. You said it yourself that you were a fool back then. But okay, how can we help you?
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Tsar-Ivor
Promising
Legendary Hero
Scourge of God
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posted June 05, 2012 07:51 PM |
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We can't, kiddies tend to try to 'trap' themselves which keeps them from making seemingly idiotic decisions which would beneficially affect their love life. Moi had/has this particular way of thinking, but he has also a way of overcoming it. (alcohol is an effective way, but that's cowardly and frankly considered as 'cheating')
It's where you over complicate a situation to the point of not actually bothering to do anything, that is why 'mentally restricted' people (I dare not make a list of whom I consider as such lest I offend ) have seemingly more 'fun', and enjoyment out life, ignorance is bliss afterall.
So you say, thinking is bad then, so why not use alcohol, it's a win win right? No, it's cheap, nothing like a raging battle within you to make a seemingly asinine situation 'spicy'. And besides it need not come to that, just make sure that you concentrate on the present tense ALWAYS when you find yourself in such a situation (when I say always I mean grey area and not a switch on/off button  0
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"No laughs were had. There is only shame and sadness." Jenny
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OhforfSake
Promising
Legendary Hero
Initiate
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posted June 05, 2012 07:58 PM |
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We can't, kiddies tend to try to 'trap' themselves which keeps them from making seemingly idiotic decisions which would beneficially affect their love life. Moi had/has this particular way of thinking, but he has also a way of overcoming it. (alcohol is an effective way, but that's cowardly and frankly considered as 'cheating')
I don't think it's only 'kiddies'. You said it yourself, it goes for you. It goes for me too. I think most common people, not bend on world conquest, and who'd rather live a good life, than rule over others, tend to want to run away from taking responsibility, for themselves as well as from others. At least this provides a reason for why good well-intending clever people tend to behave in destructive manner.
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NoobX
Undefeatable Hero
Now, this is a paradox...
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posted June 05, 2012 08:05 PM |
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I want to know how to tell my mom first, but I'm shy to do it directly... I'm a real piece of work!
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