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JoonasTo
Responsible
Undefeatable Hero
What if Elvin was female?
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posted June 07, 2012 06:20 PM |
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You don't 'get' a girlfriend.
You hit them on the head with a club and drag them off.
Quote: She decided she was going to "hug-train" me - she started hugging me more often, and I didn't really object because it didn't bother me that much.
Goner here
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Azagal
Honorable
Undefeatable Hero
Smooth Snake
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posted June 08, 2012 01:52 AM |
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Edited by Azagal at 03:14, 08 Jun 2012.
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Quote: Do you have a girlfriend, Azagal? If you do, how did you get her?
Not atm no. I have heard that I can be quite charming if I want to be though. I always find it silly for a person to say what make hims "smooth" or "attractive" since oneself is hardly ever a good judge. I don't have a "style" or "mode" or whatever people use to describe their specific behaviour when they try to hit on girl.
I'm good and talking and I'm no frankenstein either. I always found that charm wins over many other things guys have to "offer".
But dude when I was 14 I had a girlfriend and I did lots of stupid snow I regret horribly. So don't be dumb.
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"All I can see is what's in front of me. And all I can do is keep moving forward" - The Heir Wielder of Names, Seeker of Thrones, King of Swords, Breaker of Infinities, Wheel Smashing Lord
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NoobX
Undefeatable Hero
Now, this is a paradox...
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posted June 08, 2012 06:12 AM |
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I won't be dumb. I'll try my best.
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Ghost said: Door knob resembles anus tap.
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NoobX
Undefeatable Hero
Now, this is a paradox...
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posted June 09, 2012 08:10 PM |
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Can't stop thinking about her... Started planing on how to tell her how I feel. It is going to be a major step, but I've got one more year so I can slow down a bit.
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Ghost said: Door knob resembles anus tap.
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Tsar-Ivor
Promising
Legendary Hero
Scourge of God
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posted June 09, 2012 08:15 PM |
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Another year without her? Sure, might aswell be tightening the noose around your neck.
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"No laughs were had. There is only shame and sadness." Jenny
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NoobX
Undefeatable Hero
Now, this is a paradox...
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posted June 09, 2012 08:22 PM |
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I lived through the 3 years since I've known her and I didn't cry, but this time I'll be sad because I won't be seeing her.
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Ghost said: Door knob resembles anus tap.
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OhforfSake
Promising
Legendary Hero
Initiate
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posted June 09, 2012 08:32 PM |
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Wow dude. You don't even know how she feels about you, or if you guys can enjoy eachothers company as a couple, yet you're wasting all this energy focusing on her and developing feelings which may never be reciprocated. You gotta have an amazing mind capacity. Just try not to promise her something you later don't want to keep true to.
Personally, I would have thought doing it the other way around would have been smarter, but that may just be me. I mean, yeah, we don't choose what we feel, but we do choose on what feelings we want to focus on and develop. Then again, if your life is unsatisfying in general, maybe you have no choice, but then you risk bringing her into something unpleasant. Then again, what do I know? It's not like I really know this kind of stuff, it's just thoughts.
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NoobX
Undefeatable Hero
Now, this is a paradox...
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posted June 10, 2012 07:13 PM |
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Should I get her attention tomorrow? Should we have a conversation?
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Ghost said: Door knob resembles anus tap.
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zamfir
Promising
Supreme Hero
Allez allez allez
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posted June 10, 2012 09:41 PM |
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How well do you know her? Have you ever tried talking with her?
Don't say that you still have an year. Don't isolate yourself and "train" so you can be cool for her. Things don't work like that. You'll make yourself even more nervous. You don't wake up one morning and realize you are awesome. The only way in which you can eliminate your fear is by taking with her.
Anyway, there is a good chance she knows you like her. Girls are pretty good at spotting this. And if she knows, it's great. At this age, she doesn't expect you to make money/have a good job/be muscular.
Just go an talk with her. Don't say "I love you" and don't be romantic. Try to be a very good friend and be awesome. She realizes that you like her before you tell her, and if she grows to like you she will give the signals to act. Try to befriend her friends, be a part of her group. If you win them, you will have much better chances.
And don't ask the most basic questions, and not on a forum. That's the easiest way of scaring yourself. Nobody will came and give you a step by step manual, you only learn things by experience. By asking these questions, you are now unconsciously telling yourself you are not capable of doing anything, and that you depend on others.
Just enjoy it and be happy. She will find out pretty damn soon you like her, and usually they enjoy finding that out.
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Adrius
Honorable
Undefeatable Hero
Stand and fight!
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posted June 10, 2012 09:42 PM |
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Dude converse as much as you want, you don't need the internet's approval to talk to a girl ya like.
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Darkshadow
Legendary Hero
Cerise Princess
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posted June 10, 2012 09:45 PM |
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Quote: Dude converse as much as you want, you don't need the internet's approval to talk to a girl ya like.
See, This is what happens. Eventually you are assimilated and seek orders from the collective.
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NoobX
Undefeatable Hero
Now, this is a paradox...
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posted June 10, 2012 09:53 PM |
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You've got a point. I shouldn't be asking such silly questions. What I need to do is go and hang with her.
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Ghost said: Door knob resembles anus tap.
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emilsn
Legendary Hero
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posted June 11, 2012 10:42 AM |
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Quote: You've got a point. I shouldn't be asking such silly questions. What I need to do is go and hang with her.
Now go and make us proud
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Don't walk behind me; I may not
lead. Don't walk in front of me;
I may not follow. Just walk
beside me and be my friend.
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NoobX
Undefeatable Hero
Now, this is a paradox...
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posted June 11, 2012 01:16 PM |
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Ok. This day wasn't so bad - we talked a bit and messed around. Things are improving.
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Ghost said: Door knob resembles anus tap.
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emilsn
Legendary Hero
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posted June 12, 2012 09:16 PM |
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Love is a torture - Love is a bliss.
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Don't walk behind me; I may not
lead. Don't walk in front of me;
I may not follow. Just walk
beside me and be my friend.
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NoobX
Undefeatable Hero
Now, this is a paradox...
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posted June 12, 2012 09:46 PM |
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Quote:
Love is a torture - Love is a bliss.
Love is something that I miss.
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emilsn
Legendary Hero
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posted June 13, 2012 09:08 PM |
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Welcome to the club
I am in love again She is so sweet, the smile I can make everybody fall from grace
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Don't walk behind me; I may not
lead. Don't walk in front of me;
I may not follow. Just walk
beside me and be my friend.
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NoobX
Undefeatable Hero
Now, this is a paradox...
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posted June 13, 2012 09:21 PM |
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Does she know that?
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Ghost said: Door knob resembles anus tap.
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emilsn
Legendary Hero
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posted June 13, 2012 11:20 PM |
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nope
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Don't walk behind me; I may not
lead. Don't walk in front of me;
I may not follow. Just walk
beside me and be my friend.
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NoobX
Undefeatable Hero
Now, this is a paradox...
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posted June 15, 2012 12:45 PM |
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I won't be seeing her in 2.5 months... I have a tear in my eye, seriously.
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Ghost said: Door knob resembles anus tap.
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