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Elvin
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posted January 24, 2009 01:04 PM |
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Eh you know how it goes. Show some attention, help when they have their blues, find yourself deserted at the first opportunity 
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Doomforge
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posted January 24, 2009 01:08 PM |
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@Shortly after, when I stopped typing "Hi" first it was dead again, although I see ehr online all the time.
Most obvious sing of not caring. ;/
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Mytical
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posted January 24, 2009 01:09 PM |
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Treat a woman like a person first, then like a queen, then like a goddess, then like a person again.  . Most women (there are exceptions) do not like to be put on a pedestal (at least at first). If you act like a 'friend' that is what you will be. Don't get me wrong, being there when they need you is great however.
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DagothGares
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posted January 24, 2009 01:20 PM |
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To be honest, I get the greatest responses if I act like they're just slightly beneath me, though usually I love them dearly...
And, yes, I once made the mistake of putting them on a pedestal.
I learned from it, now, I guess, through very painful ordeals
Oh, but what do I know, I'm a kid 
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Doomforge
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posted January 24, 2009 01:50 PM |
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It's a good idea to make the woman feel special, but putting them on pedestal sucks.
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JoonasTo
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What if Elvin was female?
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posted January 24, 2009 06:35 PM |
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You're just like a kid emilsn.
You want what you don't have.
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TheDeath
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posted January 24, 2009 07:06 PM |
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Thats the whole point,i dont like her,but im trying to be nice so she wouldnt think anything bad about me.
You're trying to be nice? That means you DID talk to her, right?
Can you figure out why she likes you or whatever?
And figure out why you don't. Is it because she is not your taste or just her psychotic personality?
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MightyMage
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posted January 24, 2009 07:26 PM |
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I wonder if what I did last night was "putting her on a pedestal"
Since me and Jasmine started seeing each other again she's kind of acted like we never broke up. Hugging, kissing, "other stuff", telling me she loves me, texting to say she misses me when I'm at work but we were talking a few nights ago and something she said bothered me.
A song on my iPod started playing while we were sitting in my car. You Don't Know Me by Ben Folds and Regina Spektor.
She asked me if the song had any lyrical meaning and I was honest with her. Yes, it did. The song is basically about a couple arguing with each other. The guy asks the girl why, if she had so many problems with him, would she ever want him back and they go back and forth saying You don't know me at all. When I went through this stuff with Jasmine before I would ask myself the same thing. Did she really want me back?
Well it seemed as though this time she did. She told me that whenever she's with me she feels invincible. Nice.  
But back to the car, somehow we began discussing the four months we were apart. She said she tried dating other people but she could never get me out of her mind. We continued talking for awhile and she told me she wanted to see me the next day and she would skip her classes to do so. I told her that was nice but I couldn't skip work as easily as she could skip her classes. She said, "well I'd rather be working then have to go to class every day."
I jokingly told her she could always come work with me and she replied by saying, "I would never work with an ex."
That kind of shocked me. I mean after everything else she's said she stilled referred to me as "an ex"?
So I questioned it. Just an ex? She asked, well what do you see us as. I told her I figered by now we had moved past that then asked her the same question. She kind of turned away and said, "I don't know, I guess friends with benefits."
HELL NO! I'm sorry but I'm done with those kind of things. I've been a "friend with benefits" in the past. I've had my flings. I'm over that kind of life. It had its charms for awhile but got old quick.
I brushed it off for the time being but then my devious mind started working. She didn't mean it and I could tell. But she's never been good with explaining feelings.
Time for me to step up and thank whatever deity that may or may not exist for TV. A commercial came on for Kay Jewelers with their new design called the Open Hearts.
I went to the local Kay Jewelry store and asked what the story was behind the piece. The guy said it was designed by an artist named Jane Seymour whose philosophy behind it was "The open heart says that when you love yourself and keep your heart open only then can you best give and receive love. Love has no boundaries and true love flows unconditionally."
PERFECT!
So I planned a romantic evening...
More later. I gotta go to work.
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Aculias
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posted January 24, 2009 07:54 PM |
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Treat a woman like a person first, then like a queen, then like a goddess, then like a person again. . Most women (there are exceptions) do not like to be put on a pedestal (at least at first). If you act like a 'friend' that is what you will be. Don't get me wrong, being there when they need you is great however.
That is easier said then done.
It's defanately not that simple 
We can treat them like saints & we still get yelled at
We can never figure them out.
We dont need to. Just got to love them.
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friendofgunnar
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posted January 24, 2009 08:52 PM |
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this thread was more interesting back when you were a man-ho
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emilsn
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posted January 24, 2009 09:52 PM |
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@MM
What err is the thoughts behind your actions there - You are in her opinion a friend...with benefits and then you run out and buy her a ring?!
No offense dude but wouldn't it be better to tell her straight forward that you aren't interrested in being just a friend... with benefits? Instead of buying her her a ring and hoping she will like you even more!
I would be more cold. As I wouldn't like to be a friend... with benefits...
A romantic evening, okay fine, sure good way to move from friend... with benefits to the serious thing but the ring is over the top in my opinion..
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DagothGares
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posted January 24, 2009 10:28 PM |
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MM, that's truly romantic!
And if you think that's the best option, then you should all go for it.
But I have a few questions:
You think she knows the meaning of the ring?
You do this, because you believe that this relation could work?
Or is it that you can't accept that she just wants to be firneds? (I really hate saying this, I just don't want you to be rash, because that's where mistakes are made, however sweet the intentions may have been)
She still goes to school? Is there a big age difference? If there is, then maybe she just wants to have fun...
Okay, just leave this out of your mind for the pessimism that it is and go through or reply yes to nearly all questions and go through with it. God speed!
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Seraphim
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posted January 25, 2009 12:05 AM |
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How do you guys feel when you fail or your beloved leaves you?
(Can not think that any of you did not have a first try)
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DagothGares
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posted January 25, 2009 12:11 AM |
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We go through the phases...
Let's see... (each time different girl)
first time stunned
second time dark, brooding...
third time downright miserable, messed up, depressed even, I actually scared some people around me. (but then again, they still think me a psychopath...  And I'm a nice person, now, honest!)
And well, now I'm together with someone, but that's not really interesting.
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Seraphim
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posted January 25, 2009 12:35 AM |
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We go through the phases...
Let's see... (each time different girl)
first time stunned
second time dark, brooding...
third time downright miserable, messed up, depressed even, I actually scared some people around me. (but then again, they still think me a psychopath... And I'm a nice person, now, honest!)
And well, now I'm together with someone, but that's not really interesting.
Well,the phases,as I see,are only good at the beginning it becomes frustating at the end.
Girls are so messy.
PS: srry for double.
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TheDeath
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posted January 25, 2009 12:38 AM |
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This could be an addiction too
I never advise anyone to have the "I can't live without you" in their minds. I'm not even sure if girls want that so there
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Elvin
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posted January 25, 2009 12:40 AM |
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Everything about that girl screams that she wants to be with MM. The friends with benefits comment had me for a few seconds but think about it, doesn't match with her overall behaviour. Girls like to test our reactions. Looking forward to the conclusion, was a bit hasty if you ask me but it is an action that speaks volumes - especially in a period of doubt.
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DagothGares
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posted January 25, 2009 12:40 AM |
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Death, with all due respect: shut up. You can't control that... Unless you want to see a shrink in ten years, then yes you can control that. Have fun with repressed memories syndrome
You can't talk rationally when in love. You can try to, but you feel what you feel and there is little to be done about that, now is there? All you can do is control how you look on the outside and if it's put to an extreme level: hello there shrink!
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Seraphim
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posted January 25, 2009 12:42 AM |
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This could be an addiction too
I never advise anyone to have the "I can't live without you" in their minds. I'm not even sure if girls want that so there
Short relationship,short years i think.
Maybe when prompted once succesfully,it lasts longer.I am totally inexperienced with this because I have not engaged in a relationship with a girl yet.
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TheDeath
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posted January 25, 2009 12:55 AM |
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You can't control that...
Control what? 
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You can't talk rationally when in love. You can try to, but you feel what you feel and there is little to be done about that, now is there? All you can do is control how you look on the outside and if it's put to an extreme level: hello there shrink!
Sorry, I'm not following you. When was rationality brought into this anyway?
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