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baklava
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posted May 30, 2011 11:20 AM |
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Edited by baklava at 11:21, 30 May 2011.
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They don't normally find out (and sometimes never do) until middle age.
That's true. As we see now, looking back in history, the last middle age ended somewhere with the renaissance, which is coincidentally about the first period since the ancient world that women started giving people a headache. The middle ages were the optimal period of perfect harmony in gender relations and we should really strive to bring another one back. We could start with electing conservatives and re-instituting the inquisition, then slowly work our way back to swords and ox carts.
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posted May 30, 2011 11:25 AM |
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I was referring to the little crazy scenarios I have heard a number of girls conjure up to explain something otherwise simple. For instance a male friend of mine had a.. technical problem so his girlfriend started thinking that it was her that couldn't turn him on. And she is quite attractive. Now, any guy knows that this scenario makes no sense at all  There was that other girl that spent a whole afternoon analyzing something silly to see what was up with that. I am 100% certain that the other guy didn't give what he said a second thought. Heck he may not have even given it a first thought 
Men aren't necessarily simple but will show their intentions in a simple manner more often than not.
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JollyJoker
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posted May 30, 2011 11:27 AM |
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Girls know what they want alright (as far as anyone can know that) - but they are communicating it less directly than boys, and sometimes not at all.
There are lots of reasons for that, but that's not important here.
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posted May 30, 2011 11:34 AM |
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Edited by Adrius at 11:37, 30 May 2011.
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Well we can compare how deep men are in comparison to girls by looking at magazines, which are aimed at what men and women like and want.
Women's Magazine
"How you know that he is cheating! WE EXPLAIN!"
"How to get your dream guy!"
"How to get that beach body, gurl!"
"Yoga and meditation! Connect to ya inner sexiness!"
Men's Magazine
"WE TEST FIREARMS!"
"CATS THAT LOOK LIKE HITLER! HUGE ARTICLE!"
"MONKEYS ON SKATEBOARDS...! I MEAN, JUST LOOK AT THAT ****, SERIOUSLY"
"WE HAZ PICS OF NAKED WOMEN"
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Doomforge
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posted May 30, 2011 12:30 PM |
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I've recently been told by a friend that "girl's don't know what they want" and I was just wondering how true that might be.
Fortunately, this is not always true.
When it's true - avoid relationship with such a girl like a plague.
For your own sake.
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shyranis
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posted May 30, 2011 02:05 PM |
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Every person is different, a drop of water in a lake of billions.
You're not a mind reader and you're not perfect, but neither are girls.
I basically know what I want, but it's fairly generic. There are only a few things I want that are specific.
Your answer is both yes and no as one generalization cannot encompass an entire gender.
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posted May 30, 2011 02:05 PM |
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I wish I knew what I want, that would really make things easy...
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posted May 30, 2011 03:48 PM |
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Wha you had????? Experiences MVass  ?
Here i thought you was the 20 year old virgin!
Anywho I guess it also depends on where your from as well, even though you got personal thoughts of what you want.
Your upbringing may be different & forced into a thought process of what you have to have.
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posted May 30, 2011 05:56 PM |
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Things can change from age to age and also day to day.
When your in your teens or in fact any age do you really understand love and what a person wants.
Is it right to change a person in to something you want.
Feelings don't help when you are trying to undestand someone either and neither do mixed messages it just complicates things.
Also if you do listen to others advice also make sure you use your own judgement as well, things arent always black and white.....
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posted May 31, 2011 12:02 AM |
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I've recently been told by a friend that "girl's don't know what they want" and I was just wondering how true that might be.
Fortunately, this is not always true.
When it's true - avoid relationship with such a girl like a plague.
For your own sake.
Could you be a bit more detailed on this subject doomforge? I think this very relevant to my dilemma.
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posted May 31, 2011 12:21 AM |
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Edited by Arcax at 00:21, 31 May 2011.
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What DF meant is pretty simple. You dont want to play mind games 10 times per day, wondering when your walking TNT will explode, dont you ?
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posted May 31, 2011 12:25 AM |
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"How you know that he is cheating! WE EXPLAIN!"
I love these articles. Is he paying less attention to you? He's clearly distracted by the other girl. Is he paying more attention to you? Obviously, he feels guilty for cheating so tries to make up for it by being nicer than usual. Is he paying the normal amount of attention? He's gotten bored with routine and is spicing things up by cheating.
Just can't win.
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posted May 31, 2011 01:19 AM |
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Heehe I know... also if you sit at a caffee with friends and only 1 girl is with you... don't comment on how gorgeous the girl is that just walked by or what a ridiculously perfect behind the one had that just now sat down at the other table. You'll make her feel bad no matter whether she's prettier than everyone you know and no matter how long you've known her.
Just don't comment on anyone.
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posted May 31, 2011 03:07 AM |
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I don't know who said it, but this sums it up well :- "Men need sex to feel loved and women need to feel loved to have sex".
So there is your answer
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Doomforge
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posted May 31, 2011 11:15 AM |
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Could you be a bit more detailed on this subject doomforge? I think this very relevant to my dilemma.
A girl who doesn't really know what she wants usually doesn't know what she feels either. Trying with such a girl will bring you into situations where she "loves you" for a month, then goes to a period of "or maybe I don't" for another two, then she starts oscillating between those two, paired with a ton of what ifs and general depressive/passionate moodswings. In the end she usually decides "you're not the one" and dumps you. Unless you get tired of this before and dump her first.
Been there done that. Seen it too, so many times @_o
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posted May 31, 2011 11:41 AM |
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A wise man once said. "If you have issues with everybody..maybe the one common denominator is not everybody..." or some such. Basically if something occurs..like a woman dumping you, or you dumping them..regularly..then maybe THEY are not the problem..just saying.
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Doomforge
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posted May 31, 2011 05:35 PM |
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I hate when people try to suggest that a girl changing her mind 300 times per day is MY fault.
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