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Tsar-Ivor
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posted August 28, 2012 11:25 PM |
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Are you guys really going to discuss this? I though someone through it out there as a joke.
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gnomes2169
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posted August 28, 2012 11:26 PM |
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It was part of his legitimate response... I think he's being serious... 
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Tsar-Ivor
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posted August 28, 2012 11:44 PM |
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1. Would you forgive a cheating bf/gf ?
~Depends on context
2. What is considered cheating to you ?
~Kissing +
3. Is flirting cheating ?
~Yes and no, it's a start though and can have no good outcome. (for the relationship)
4. Is having feelings for another girl/guy cheating if you never act upon it ?
~Not at all.
5 Is phone sex/sexting/webcam sex cheating ?
~No, but I'd find it grossly inappropriate.
6. Is there any difference between a kiss, makin out, having sex ? Would you forgive one or all ?
~Depends on context, she could be drunk, or a guy might've just kissed her by catching her off guard, but worst case scenario? If she really liked and wanted to do it, she can do that with my blessing, but then she has no place in my life afterward.
7. One night stands as opposed to long term affairs ?
~We all make mistakes, and depending on everything and context
8. When is it ok to cheat if ever ?
~It would be imprudent of me to say never. We can never be prepared for life.
9 Have you ever cheated and why ?
~N/A
10. Do you think you will ever cheat and why ?
~I don't intend to, but I imagine that one day I might be forced to choose between two people, had to make that call once, turned out to be damn simple, I chose neither. I have NO interest in forming a love triangle EVER. But I have this uncanny feeling that I might have to deal with it again in the future. 
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JoonasTo
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What if Elvin was female?
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posted August 29, 2012 12:22 AM |
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I am.
I would also seriously consider raping the rapist.
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Tsar-Ivor
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posted August 29, 2012 03:25 AM |
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@Joonas Neat.
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Fauch
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posted September 01, 2012 03:48 AM |
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a majority of you claim you wouldn't forgive cheating, and ohforf is the only one claiming he would forgive for sure.
what is the problem exactly with cheating?
do you fear your loved one may leave you for the other person?
is it simply unacceptable that your loved one may spend "good time" with another person than you?
is the problem the act in itself, or the fact that it was done without you knowing about it?
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wog_edn
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posted September 01, 2012 04:13 AM |
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That kind of willing intimacy with another person proves that the person is not exclusively into me, and therefor I would not stay with that person. Simple as that.
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madshj
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posted October 02, 2012 10:26 AM |
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Ugh.. Seems like I'll be the exception here.
1. Would you forgive a cheating bf/gf ?
Yea
2. What is considered cheating to you ?
Flirting, kissing, makin' out, intercourse etc.
3. Is flirting cheating ?
Well in some way it is I guess
4. Is having feelings for another girl/guy cheating if you never act upon it ?
We as humans, can not control our feelings, thus I wouldn't call it cheating
5 Is phone sex/sexting/webcam sex cheating ?
Yea, I'd say
6. Is there any difference between a kiss, makin out, having sex ? Would you forgive one or all ?
I'd forgive everything, as silly as I am, though after forgiving, it would probably haunt me for a long time
7. One night stands as opposed to long term affairs ?
More forgiveable, but they're both not acceptable
8. When is it ok to cheat if ever ?
Well, I don't really know - If your relationship is inevitable going towards its doom, then well I guess
9 Have you ever cheated and why ?
As the only one, or at least the one admitting it - Yes I have. It's not something I'm proud of. Let me say I had a very confusing time in my life, a sort of an identity crisis during that period. + The girl I was with, sort of denied everything sexual.
10. Do you think you will ever cheat and why ?
Well, honestly, and I don't know if that makes me a bad person or not, then I do not know, I wouldn't if the girl I was with, really showed that she loved me, and if she would actually want to have sex and stuff.
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antipaladin
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posted October 07, 2012 05:03 PM |
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1. Would you forgive a cheating bf/gf ? did in the past,probbly would'nt now, once cheater always a cheater.
2. What is considered cheating to you ? more then friendes.
3. Is flirting cheating ? to a degree,depends on the level of flirt.
4. Is having feelings for another girl/guy cheating if you never act upon it ? no
5 Is phone sex/sexting/webcam sex cheating ? yes
6. Is there any difference between a kiss, makin out, having sex ? Would you forgive one or all ? nope.
7. One night stands as opposed to long term affairs ? long term, for a mature settelment of family. one night stands is kiddi work. true adult should work out the problams and not cheat or have one night stands...
8. When is it ok to cheat if ever ? nope.
9 Have you ever cheated and why ? yes i did, when i was cheated i cheated back, i thought it'd feel better, i didnt.
10. Do you think you will ever cheat and why ? no, since my current gf and i , i had meny options to do so, like everyone wants me twice as much since im taken. but twice as much is also my will to be faithfull.
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perinajbara
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posted October 13, 2012 03:04 AM |
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1. Would you forgive a cheating bf/gf ?
Probably, but that doesn't mean I'll have the same feelings. Which in turn does not mean that they might become negative.
2. What is considered cheating to you ?
Cheating is doing something behind your partner's back, and not discussing it with him.
3. Is flirting cheating ?
Not at all, it is just a really nice way of checking your own abilities, and a chance to feel something different.
4. Is having feelings for another girl/guy cheating if you never act upon it ?
Not at all, feelings are changeable, therefore, natural.
5. Is phone sex/sexting/webcam sex cheating ?
It might be, if the partner finds it inappropriate.
6. Is there any difference between a kiss, makin out, having sex ? Would you forgive one or all ?
There is a difference, they all progressively include more feelings or desire. Forgiving them wouldn't be a problem, my ego is not that big. People have other desires.
7. One night stands as opposed to long term affairs ?
Affair is a bad word, stating something tricksy.  I might be disappointed when an affair would occur, but it's nothing that cannot be talked about.
8. When is it ok to cheat if ever ?
Cheating is not alright, having different relationships while staying with your partner is acceptable, as long as your other partner has no problem with it. It is easy to hurt people's feelings, which is the worst of all.
9. Have you ever cheated and why ?
I have not cheated, nor have I had different partners at the same time.
10. Do you think you will ever cheat and why ?
I never know, change is eternal, so I might change myself one day.
By the way, this topic is great. I love writing about opinions, and thinking about them. It's really nice to see different ones, too.
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Seraphim
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posted October 13, 2012 10:27 PM |
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Edited by Seraphim at 22:32, 13 Oct 2012.
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Having a gf and hookin up with a random girl for one night only as opposed to having a lover (hooking up with the same girl over and over again) - affair/secret relationship or however you wanna call it...
Oh, I certainly would not mind if she went day by day with different guys. But then, I would tell her that we change our relationship to something more "Formal".
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ChrisD1
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posted October 14, 2012 12:23 AM |
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1. Would you forgive a cheating bf/gf ?
nah
2. What is considered cheating to you ?
going behind my back and doing something with someone else that i can offer.
3. Is flirting cheating ?
not exactly but it means something is wrong.
4. Is having feelings for another girl/guy cheating if you never act upon it ?
no but a break up is required.
5 Is phone sex/sexting/webcam sex cheating ?
lol
6. Is there any difference between a kiss, makin out, having sex ?
Would you forgive one or all ?
i wouldn't be able to continue the relatioship after any of these.
7. One night stands as opposed to long term affairs ?
in general?it depends on what you need at the time.
8. When is it ok to cheat if ever ?
when the other person cannot give you some things and you talk about it and compromise that the relationship will be more "open".
9 Have you ever cheated and why ?
yes, because i wasn't getting what i wanted, soon after i broke up.
10. Do you think you will ever cheat and why ?
not anymore. if i see that something crucial is missing from the relationship i will break up.
some serious question, kudos
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fauch
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posted February 18, 2013 12:41 AM |
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Edited by fauch at 02:15, 18 Feb 2013.
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Is it the reason behind marriage, to make cheating illegal? have there actually be societies where cheating wasn't a problem (they would probably not have to name it then?) it seems it has always been something extremly grave, which is weird since it's just sex. in particular, now, with contraception.
btw, it seems it is an infamy to marry for sex, but if we had no sexual needs, how often would we actually marry?
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JollyJoker
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posted February 18, 2013 08:32 AM |
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Fauch, the whole thing had never to do with cheating, only with children and heritage. Family's and marriage's purpose has been to ensure the economic welfare of children and mothers, including heritage (since men has been the focus of economic power).
Cheating has never been a problem therefore, for the men, as long as there were no children out of wedlock. While it has been one for a woman, because, if caught, that would have shed doubt on the whole bunch of children with her husband (children might not have been his).
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fauch
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posted February 18, 2013 02:50 PM |
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ok, but what about religions? they make of cheating a deadly sin. and they don't really deal with economical stuffs
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JollyJoker
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posted February 18, 2013 04:10 PM |
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Well, they do, don't they? After all, slavery was allowed because of that, and all that marriage and no-cheating stuff is supposed to bring an element of stability and order.
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