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kiryu133
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Legendary Hero
Highly illogical
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posted May 06, 2015 08:07 AM |
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Don't be a jerk
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It is with a heavy heart that I must announce that the cis are at it again.
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husham123
Famous Hero
Yes
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posted May 06, 2015 11:45 AM |
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Thanks William
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What the darn-diddily-doodily did you just say about me, you little witcharooney? I’ll have you know I graduated top of my class at Springfield Bible College, and I’ve been involved in numerous secret
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PandaTar
Responsible
Legendary Hero
Celestial Heavens Mascot
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posted May 06, 2015 06:23 PM |
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Basically what Geny said (said, not sayd). You remind me of LightAvatarX in SC.
I used to behave a little like that in Celestial Heavens back in 2003, mainly because I was so charmed and delighted at speaking with foreign people online for the first time, even with a dial up connection (you might not even wonder how it was back then). Things took forever to load and I was so keen to speak and be friends with everyone.
You don't have to be in a rush to be everywhere and also you don't need to be friends with everyone. You can be at good terms with people in a holistic sense, but some of us may grow weary when reading or seeing someone everywhere all the time with not a substantial collaboration on the overall discussion, of simply intruding here and there when there's a more serious and specific discussion (I refer mainly when two or three people are reasoning and they might be better off in their business when left alone).
Besides, not that my English is any good, but you said yours wasn't that good and you had some difficulties in understanding. So, before posting, try understanding things a little. If you are left in doubt, but you see that your opinion won't add anything fruitful, you simply don't have to post anything. Let it be. If it truly concerns you, ask for an explanation, perhaps by PMing that person (only don't do that too often to a single person, only if you really have too) to try and get a better scope on things.
Also keep in mind that silence may actually be a reply per se. Sometimes, we agree or don't or we simply comply and there's no need to reply and post a gif etc, only to state that, you see. Sometimes it snowballs to off topic or gets silly pretty fast. And I apologize for using the word 'silly'. It all depends on the point of view. I mean that it gets a little overwhelming and weary.
And try checking on older threads something of your interest before creating a new one which is completely redundant. Mods will lock some threads, but I gather that those which are not, even being really old, are not out of fashion altogether. Words and interests come and go with time.
That's all what I have to say. I may be a little grouch sometimes, but I'm a panda. Completely lovely, when not mauling you to death.
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husham123
Famous Hero
Yes
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posted May 06, 2015 07:44 PM |
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Again, I NEED friends everywhere. I am friendly that's my kind. In real life, you couldn't count my enemyes, so yep. I do need some at least online 
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What the darn-diddily-doodily did you just say about me, you little witcharooney? I’ll have you know I graduated top of my class at Springfield Bible College, and I’ve been involved in numerous secret
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Maurice
Hero of Order
Part of the furniture
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posted May 06, 2015 11:22 PM |
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husham123 said:
Again, I NEED friends everywhere. I am friendly that's my kind. In real life, you couldn't count my enemyes, so yep. I do need some at least online
Aren't you contradicting yourself a bit here? You say you are the friendly kind, yet you state that you lack friends in reallife? To me that sounds like other people don't consider you as kind as you think you are, yourself. So all the advice given here, take that with you in reallife too  .
Realise that all other people you meet in life have a different opinion on things, look at things differently than you do. That's ok; respect them for it and they'll be more likely to respect yours in return. Try to understand why they think the way they do, why they see things the way they do and try to calmly explain what you think and see (and that in the first place to yourself - which may be harder than you think  ). Their opinion and the way they look at the world isn't better or worse than yours, just ... different, and there's nothing wrong with that.
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husham123
Famous Hero
Yes
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posted May 07, 2015 11:16 AM |
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Nope, I have MORE friends then enemyes in real life. But I HATE to have enemyes. For example, in my school, there are lots of colegues that... DAMN, THEY'RE LIKE BEASTS ! They hunt all mistakes you gained, they want to EAT you (theoretically, not like they're cannibals ).
First, I might say... Peoples are bad. ALL the peoples are bad. More, or less. Noone is perfect. For example, you are less, VERY less. So am I, but the PEOPLES have different opinions that basically, I am a bad man, or that I want the bad of everyone. Here, the HC is mantained by Valeriy, a nice man that pays all the bills, and sometimes only ASKS for donations, not like obligating someone. In other websites, or server from games they ask money for thinks. For example, I got banned on a server from LOTD (Land Of The Dead), and I was going to the forums. Here they asked to pay 50$ for an unban  . I mean really, I DON'T have that money. I know I am young, but if I would REALLY BE DESPERATE to play in that server, I would ask my mother to pay. SHE WOULD REALLY kill me if she hears. I mean, because the parents are working hard for money, for well... Umm... For us. Even if we are just... 50 years old, our parents will STILL support us ! More, or less, by anyway they can. And the money is for normal life. But, the Internet, the games, are just a hobby ! Asking for money for games, yes, seems logic. Because they're nice. But asking for money for beign unbanned on one ****ing server is just... Not nice !
How could you obligate someone to pay ?
You are bad if you ask someone to pay you, only for a stupid s*** that anyone could've done, or could get by one way or another. Acting like I never spelled this words, but my opinion is that, you're bad. More or less. You have to give the impression that you are GOOD. To be good, you have first, to have NO enemyes, or reduce the number how much possible. Then you'll be fine. Now, I will just say one think. I want everyone to think I am good, and to have a nice opinion about me. Because, I don't want enemyes. At least make the peoples be neutral about me, then be my enemyes. But I want friends instead.
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What the darn-diddily-doodily did you just say about me, you little witcharooney? I’ll have you know I graduated top of my class at Springfield Bible College, and I’ve been involved in numerous secret
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Maurice
Hero of Order
Part of the furniture
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posted May 07, 2015 11:40 AM |
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One thing I can say is that you shouldn't try so hard. By trying too hard to be in the center and to be liked by other people, you actually achieve the opposite and drive people away from you. Love and respect are things that work in awkward ways: if you want to claim or demand it, you usually achieve exactly the opposite, but if you give it, it usually comes back to you one way or another.
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husham123
Famous Hero
Yes
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posted May 07, 2015 11:47 AM |
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I know, I know. I must help to be respected, and must show them that I like to be a calm man, and a lovefully man. To do that, is a long road away. I must follow them. Anyway, I forgot this, thanks for reminding me
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What the darn-diddily-doodily did you just say about me, you little witcharooney? I’ll have you know I graduated top of my class at Springfield Bible College, and I’ve been involved in numerous secret
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Salamandre
Admirable
Omnipresent Hero
Wog refugee
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posted May 07, 2015 03:02 PM |
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I think you will inevitably end with a silence or a penalty, if not both. If you continue this way.
Not that you are blatantly breaking the CoC but there is enough evidence that you randomly joined this forum; you don't have a clue about Heroes games, about their history, conflicts and ramifications; nor any documented attitude about arguing about anything else. Yet you constantly have to add some worthless comment every 3 posts in every forum, just to remember us you are active, that you are trying very hard to keep the standards, to help, to exist. Or the result is exactly at the opposite; even when you compliment me on someone else for some work we did, I feel unease because I know you don't give a s**t about, all is about making one post, one more post.
In fact all is about YOU, even every H3 "map" you claim to prepare has your name in title. Husham here, Husham there, Escape from Husham, Glorify the Husham, Bow to the Husham. What about Silence the Husham?
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husham123
Famous Hero
Yes
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posted May 07, 2015 06:43 PM |
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Well, that wasn't nice, but I have to accept; it is the truth. I have clues about the Heroes games, and I just though that naming H3 Maps will just be... Nice. I had no ideas, but that were only 4 maps. I don't want trouble, I don't want problems, I don't want anything bad. GAINING penaltyes, and/or silences is exactly what I am trying to avoid. I am making bad posts, I know, but how could I know the standards if some peoples simply don't give me help. How's about telling me what to do to be a nice user, instead of what did I done wrong. I really DONE bad things, and all I do care now is this forum. Is all I still get from now. Before fixing other problems even in real life, I'll have to care about this forum. I rode the WHOLE CoC, and FAQ, but I don't simply know how to avoid those. Bad posts, bad posts, BAD POSTS ! That's what I hear from day to night. Husham here, Husham there, exactly. It's usual for me to hear this. Why ? Simply. I want to know EVERYTHING it needs to be a nice user. First, I will make some documentation about the Heroes, and the games I use to talk on, and be more active then ever. But in a good sense. Trying to help more than trying to simply makes posts to show I am an active user. Now, tell me how to avoid mistakes, and tell me how to be a nice user.
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What the darn-diddily-doodily did you just say about me, you little witcharooney? I’ll have you know I graduated top of my class at Springfield Bible College, and I’ve been involved in numerous secret
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PandaTar
Responsible
Legendary Hero
Celestial Heavens Mascot
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posted May 07, 2015 07:14 PM |
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@Husham
For example: the reply you just gave to Salamandre wasn't necessary. If you understood that, you don't need to reply (this works for other things, unless you feel the urge to say "thank you").
Let me try to find some posts I think, and that's me speaking, they are useless or, maybe, annoying in some sense:
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Again, I NEED friends everywhere. I am friendly that's my kind. In real life, you couldn't count my enemyes, so yep. I do need some at least online.
I think friendship is earned and not forced.
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I never used to play other Heroes than 3, but in my opinion all are awsome...
Another sort of useless thing to say. If you don't have experience about something, you don't HAVE to post about it. It's irrelevant and won't add anything to the cause. Of course, you see plenty of that stuff to and fro around here, but they are from many different people, and not from a single one every 2 or 3 posts, you see. I think that you wanted to say you thought H3 was cool so people, who also think H3 was cool, would 'like you more'. Right? Anyway, this is another example of things you may want to avoid. Keeping yourself polite and non intrusive might be priorities.
I'm not scolding you, mind you. You asked for help to understand and behave and I'm only pointing out what I see that you could grasp. Other people may differ in their understanding and can be bothered in different ways, as they also bother people here in their own fashion. In the end, even with their oddities and annoyances, you might grow to endure them, or even like them in their own way too. The fact is that you are receiving so many feedbacks is because YOU asked for it.
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husham123
Famous Hero
Yes
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posted May 07, 2015 07:26 PM |
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So, let me introduce a LOG. Each time I notice something nice, that could help peoples not to behave, or not to behave anymore like I did, I will post it with the LOG.
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I must say, that I've notice 3 things to help me (this time, to avoid):
1.Spawning Threads (actually, much threads )
Yes, it wasn't a nice idea. I stopped doing this.
2.SPAM
I don't know if all peoples have the same opinion that I SPAM, but I actually try to remove all the doubt of this, and proofing that I am not.
3.To Have Enemyes
Well, exactly what I try to avoid. Yep, there must be more friends. But I have to gain, not to lose them, and proof I need some, and I deserve them, instead (as you said) to force them
Another thing.
Yes, you helped me. And thanks for sparing time, and keeping patient when giving me helpfull info.
Yes, I wanted to say thanks, but to proof that some thoughs must be changed.
Salamandre and all of you are good. You tip out my mistakes, to help me AVOID them. I could realise myself what to avoid.
LOG
I wanted a few days ago to start a new account, that avoids my actual mistakes, and had a nice impression about it. But I though. Is better to leave a nice impression about myself, and leave like a Gloryous Hero, instead of creating a new ''identity'' just to have a better reputation
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What the darn-diddily-doodily did you just say about me, you little witcharooney? I’ll have you know I graduated top of my class at Springfield Bible College, and I’ve been involved in numerous secret
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OmegaDestroyer
Hero of Order
Fox or Chicken?
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posted May 07, 2015 08:16 PM |
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Tribunal threads are not meant for personal diaries or logs. I believe the intent of this thread, posting advice on how to avoid penalties, has been fulfilled. I am closing it now.
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The giant has awakened
You drink my blood and drown
Wrath and raving I will not stop
You'll never take me down
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