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Doomforge
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posted March 17, 2009 08:17 PM |
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only the 15 years old are
Yeah they are! 
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Stratos
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posted March 18, 2009 01:12 AM |
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Keep us posted Consis.What makes you happy anyways Consis? Anyways Inquiring minds love to know so let us know when you get screwed?
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The_Gootch
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posted March 18, 2009 01:16 AM |
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Get screwed? Not going to happen. He's going to do a magnificent job of screwing his family.
Think man. Get your effin' head out of the clouds.
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Stratos
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posted March 18, 2009 01:18 AM |
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That is pretty much what I meant. Getting screwed comes in many variety of ways. It seems Consis mastered most of the ways of getting screwed. Screwing himself just goes with it. Maybe he mastered the other parts of being screwed also?
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Consis
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posted March 18, 2009 02:20 AM |
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Edited by Consis at 02:33, 18 Mar 2009.
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This Is Where I Say Things I Shouldn't
I could say so much right now.....I want to but I just don't know. A while ago I said some things to you.
You think you're the only one with problems? You think you're the only one with stuff like that? Well let me ask you: What if you met someone who does what you do, likes what you like, is actually hawt on the other side of the computer screen and what if, just what if, she represents everything you miss about home? You didn't make the same mistake I did when you got out of the service man. You went back home to chicago and I effin went to Oregon. Do you have any idea what it's like to raise a family more than 3,000 miles away from your home, your relatives, your culture, and all the people you grew up with....best friends and all?
Every christmas I go through the deepest damn depression. My kids don't know their grandparents or aunts and uncles. But hey I met a woman in the service and I said let's go live where you live because I will go where you go. Oregon is paradise on earth and my home is filled with biggoted retarded drunken southern redneck racist jackoffs who give the rest of the country every reason to continue the jokes about them. But that's my people. I should be there trying to change them for the better, not up here in dippy hippy hell.
You have no idea how I am struggling with this. I have a choice to stay here and be a "good" man or finally go home to a hellhole of idiots and losers that I will always love. My wife has no idea.....she doesn't know what it's like to be a man who stays at home and struggles with identity crisis every day. I've been doing this for 10 years now, 7 of those here at HC.
Like this Logan:
You meet a woman who plays your favorite MMORPG, loves transformers, listens to the same music you do, loves to write thought provoking folksy satirical essays, and asks you directly to reverse an operation preventing you from having children so that she can have one more child......oh and she loves fast cars like pontiac grand prixs in mint condition fitted with bells and whistles....She's got a 4 year old son. He's the co_OLest little boy you ever saw and reminds you of yourself. She loves good food and Jesus too. And she digs computer graphic art like no tomorrow, even has some of her own work she fiddles with on a daily basis.....and is a dj for a radio station.
Do the right thing or jump off the cliff?
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Stratos
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posted March 18, 2009 02:39 AM |
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Edited by Stratos at 02:41, 18 Mar 2009.
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Your a coward Consis.What do you think your the only one with problems. Do you really give a crap about your family? Evidently if you do this then you really dont. Think of what it would do to your kids and wife dude. You just cant deal with problems. You should seek help dude because you cant even make up your own mind. Compatibility is a good thing but your leaving your family for something that may not seem as good as it looks.
You know alot of people dont know all of their families. It is a shame but sometimes your children dont get to meet their family on any holliday. You seem to have it good and your throwing it all away?
What are you looking for in life?
All in all you make your own decisions. You decided on your own to be a house hubby. It's a 50-50 relationship these days. Why dont you get off your butt and actually do what you want to do.It's never to late. Do you really think you have no other way? Seems like you do the things you like anyways.I have no respect for you. Thats a cowardly move.
It's a F up move on your part to ruin your kids and your wife. I can garuntee it will effect your kids.
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The_Gootch
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posted March 18, 2009 02:46 AM |
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I truly wish everyone joy and happiness while they pass through life. The moment they pursue it at someone else's expense is where I draw the line.
Make your own choices.
You're living the life you've prepared yourself for. Exactly how would it be different 4 years down the line when you're dealing with the broken hearts, the courts, visitation, child support, and an infatuation that has long since gone the way of the dodo?
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Consis
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posted March 18, 2009 02:47 AM |
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Stratos,
Yeah I know that.....it's all in my head at this point though
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Stratos
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posted March 18, 2009 02:53 AM |
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Edited by Stratos at 02:53, 18 Mar 2009.
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Jake you should think it through dude.No such thing as a perfect person or especially a perfect relationship.You are complaining about doing the same thing. Then do something about it. Your an adult, get a baby sitter and go out and do something with yourself. Dont torture your family over something that probally wont work out as planned.
One thing I learned is that relationships is not always peaches and Cream. Sure it may be good for a few months but can she deal with it year end?
Think it through before you decide to make your life worst then you think it is.
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Stratos
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posted March 18, 2009 03:11 AM |
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You know Jake. Why dont you try talking to your wife? Tell her your dreams and the things you want to do with yourself. Try to work something out so you wont feel as depressed.Comminication is a big key to make a relationship healthy.You hate being around cluttered in your house 24/7. Seems like you dont want to talk to your wife. You just want to high tail it when you find the right time.Somehow I know you love your wife and kids to really make a rash decision without thinking it through.
Talk to your wife about your future. Both of your futures.She is working. She is working very hard to make your family work. You need to meet her half way. You do this and it would be harder then it is now.
Thats my advice is to communicate. Work some things out so you wont feel as depressed.
Of course some things cant be helped. Like your kids not meeting all of the family. It happens. Some family are friends more then their real familiy. It's just how life is. You cant control it.
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friendofgunnar
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posted March 18, 2009 05:38 AM |
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Hmmm, I don't think you can love Jesus and cheat on your wife at the same time. You need to pick one or the other, just sayin...
You know, when I met you last year I wondered if you were truly happy in your reliable, steady, suburban routine. I can see know that there were already cracks underneath the facade. Anyway, yeah, you've got man's oldest dilemna, I've got absolutely no advice for that.
Thanks for posting though.
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Elvin
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posted March 18, 2009 09:52 AM |
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Even if this situation troubles you and you alone sooner or later it will become a problem of your family. Bottled up emotions can bring out the worst in people.. Stratos has a point, your family ought to know. Maybe that would ease the burden if just a little.
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Mytical
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posted March 18, 2009 10:06 AM |
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The forbidden fruit alwas the sweetest. Forget that the one you are with has been there for you through all the bad times, forget that you have sworn to love and cherish them. Forget that you can always explain to the person who you loved for god knows how long about your issues about where you are. I mean, they have understood every other fault you've had, but why would they undertand this one?
If you really do love the other, then it is time to tell your wife. Be a man. Don't sneak around and destroy everybody's elses life because you are want your cake and to eat it also. Don't give me this 'but you don't understand' bull. Man up and choose the new peice of tail or the one whos been there for you for YEARS.
No, I don't understand jealousy. I've never been jealous a day in my life. I do understand honesty, however. Most people can't, they are weak. They think they can hide it, and for awhile they might. Then they get shocked when it comes out in the open and people are hurt. Then cry and moan when it bites them in the ***.
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Binabik
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posted March 18, 2009 11:44 AM |
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Consis, you really need to pull back. I'm afraid to say the wrong thing, but I can't keep quiet on this either. What everyone else is saying is true. Are you looking here for permission? Well, you aren't going to get it.
I won't condemn you for being human. But I sure as hell won't tell you it's OK either, because it's not. And while we might not be best buddies, I've known you for a long time now and I like you. I've thought something was going on with you for a few years now. I've felt that you really needed to get out of the house. I didn't say anything before, maybe I should have.
You PROMISED her damnit! You promised her!
You need to talk this through with your wife. You MUST. You think someone else is going to make you happy? I don't believe that. I don't even believe it in the short term. You will be laden with guilt and you know it. Right? Answer that question honestly, if not here, then answer it for yourself.
Yes, I think there needs to be some kind of change in your life. But I don't believe for a minute that the change you are proposing is the right one.
I think you need a jump start. I think you need a change. But I also think there needs to be boundaries.
You need to work something out, and you need to involve your wife. When was the last time you talked? Really talked, as a couple? The quiet kind of talk, late at night, when you lean on your elbow in the dark, facing the person who has been with you all these years. When your quiet words and tone say "I care what you think", "I care about us, as a couple".
So you're human, you have your weaknesses. We all do. But embracing your weaknesses is fatalistic, it's giving up. Embrace your strengths and hold your head up. Do what you know it right.
It's ok to be selfish sometimes, but you need to be selfish in little pieces, not in big chunks. That's what the talk with your wife is all about, that the "me" needs a little bit more.
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Doomforge
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posted March 18, 2009 01:41 PM |
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Ok, I may lack the life experience to state my opinion, but let me say it anyway 
It's normal. It happens.
We "fall in love" in our early years of life, get married fast (I don't know how long are you married, Consis, but that's not the point ), and then realize it's not what we expected and dreamed about. The other person just doesn't share our world the way we'd like to!
And blessed are those who find a person that actually can give them what they need.
You are one lucky person to meet such a woman. I never met a girl who would REALLY be similar to me in terms of hobbies and way of thinking.
But on the other hand, you already have a wife, kids.. a commitment.
Tough situation. I'd personally go for it, though; that's what we really want in our lives, doesn't it? Happiness. And good relationship equals happiness and a lot of positive energy. But I'm still a young guy, after all: for me, it's the pursuit after happiness, but for a man of your age, it may be already different.
Cheers.
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Consis
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posted March 18, 2009 04:45 PM |
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You Guys.....
Some of you guys are saying "I don't know you and I don't know if I should give my opinion".
Would I have posted this here if I didn't want your opinions? OFCOURSE I WANT YOUR OPINIONS!
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Carcity
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posted March 18, 2009 05:14 PM |
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I am in love...
with someone younger than DF's girlfriend
anyway, the girl is nice, sweet, beautiful and jsut plain nice.
the point is.. I don't know how to tell her something. I can't just talk to her cause she is always surrounded by her friends...
how should I do?
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Stratos
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posted March 18, 2009 06:33 PM |
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Yea but would our opinion actually matter? Have you made up your mind yet? You need to listen to reason first Jake.
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Doomforge
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posted March 18, 2009 06:37 PM |
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Quote:
I am in love...
with someone younger than DF's girlfriend
anyway, the girl is nice, sweet, beautiful and jsut plain nice.
the point is.. I don't know how to tell her something. I can't just talk to her cause she is always surrounded by her friends...
how should I do?
Write in the "what is love" thread, and we'll try to help This is Consis' "private" thread.
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Consis
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posted March 18, 2009 07:30 PM |
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Yeah . . .
I never said I was anything even close to resembling honorable. I just hit this when I met this woman. And yeah it is similar because as I said about you....the children will suffer.
So to answer you Stratos I am listening to reason. I haven't done anything and I won't.
But I cannot take my mind off her or the life I could have with her. But no I won't be doing anything and my wife will probably never know this occured.
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