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Azagal
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posted July 03, 2008 03:56 PM |
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What's wrong with being awesome ? I like being perfect. You saying I need glasses ?!
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TheDeath
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posted July 03, 2008 04:00 PM |
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There's nothing wrong with being awesome.
It's wrong when you take it too much and think you are some kind of God or whatever (that is pride). 
when you refuse to listen to others' advice because you're too awesome for your own good
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Azagal
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posted July 03, 2008 04:04 PM |
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Edited by Azagal at 16:05, 03 Jul 2008.
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Shheeesh you're just jealous because you're not godlike!
Of course I won't listen to your advice I'm too awesome for that! Awesome people don't have problems... because they're awesome D'UH
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posted July 03, 2008 05:20 PM |
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It's like men having problems with their cock size. They undergo difficult surgeries, eat pills, use pumps, torment themselves every day.. ruin their lives, their mind, their self-esteem, their health, their bodies. while others happily accept what they have, and live a happy, carefree life, although they have even less then those poor grievers.
-You just made this thread so easy for men to get and I must say: If I can remember this little post, I may actully be happy about mine.. 
And somehow I tend to agree a lot with Doomforge, he is somehow right about closing the discussing in your head instead of doing something radical and I can't know this; somehow I feel like you(mytical) actully could be avoiding that confrontation with the psychology that is so importen in this case and I honestly hope that you actully won't regret this. (all that was based on your post answering DForge - Ordinary reading between the lines )
N.B I don't hope this is to offensive and you take it as an attack against your decision.
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Geny
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What if Elvin was female?
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posted July 03, 2008 08:08 PM |
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First of all, I haven't read all of the thread, just a few posts here and there (the short ones).
Second, I actually do have a problem with Mytical, a big problem that lies in one specific place - her avatar. For the love of god (or gods), you did a freaking SEX CHANGE! You've been in therapies for a year and added stuff to your body, but you can't change you god damn avvie?!?!
Anyway, as long as Mytical has that sexy vampire chick as her avatar, I will be physically unable to call her 'he'. End of story.
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Lexxan
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posted July 03, 2008 08:32 PM |
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LOL !
I actually thought about it, but decides not to tel Mythical.
Anyhow, I don't see what the problem is; I think Mythical is wise and Mature enough to choose his own gender (he's 34 for heaven's sake, much older than most of us). Why does everyone peck on her (and TNT create a fun-making thread about something as serious as this)
Anyway, I guess gender-changing operations are better than cross-dressing; I always found cross-dressers embarrasing people.(unless they are called Mulan of course)
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winterfate
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posted July 03, 2008 10:05 PM |
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Anyway, as long as Mytical has that sexy vampire chick as her avatar, I will be physically unable to call her 'he'. End of story
@Geny: Win! 
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Anyhow, I don't see what the problem is; I think Mythical is wise and Mature enough to choose his own gender (he's 34 for heaven's sake, much older than most of us). Why does everyone peck on her (and TNT create a fun-making thread about something as serious as this)
@Lexxan: Well, I didn't post in this thread to peck at her...even though I see what you mean.
Also, I believe 100% in the following (Misty said this):
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In order to receive understanding, it is important to be understanding.
Perhaps because I've always been an outcast of society (shy, timid, geek that respects women...how much more non-macho and against society's norm do you want me to be? ), I find it easy to be tolerant and understanding of other people.
It's what having friends is all about. They might do stuff you don't agree with, but as long as it's not hurting them or anyone else, then all you can do is respect it.
Now, if they're stuffing themselves full of drugs, then please, by all means, stop them, with force if necessary. They'll thank you eventually...
I'd like to end this post with an Omega quote...just because I can!
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Misty is Misty. Simple as that.
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Aculias
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posted July 04, 2008 04:09 AM |
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When i said natural.
I was replying to GL about how it is natural to feel Awkward & wierd about women or men transforming.
Tixy & Tina.
Man I miss the 3 way hubba tubba Tub Action.
Can I be Jack Sparrow again ?
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mvassilev
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posted July 04, 2008 04:44 AM |
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Anyway, as long as Mytical has that sexy vampire chick as her avatar, I will be physically unable to call her 'he'. End of story
This.
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and TNT create a fun-making thread about something as serious as this
I thought it was funny (though maybe a bit over the line).
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william
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posted July 04, 2008 04:54 AM |
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Why does everyone peck on her
I think the only person that would peck on her would be this member
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Azagal
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posted July 04, 2008 06:37 AM |
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Edited by Azagal at 06:39, 04 Jul 2008.
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(and TNT create a fun-making thread about something as serious as this)
You are so fake you know that? Jesus christ... trying to please everybody at once... . LOOK who made the first post... Did you have the guts to say anything?! No you didn't! Why because you wouldn't like to tell someone as TnT that the thread was BS (I bet you my vacation that you hadn't done it had it been DS or someone not as popular who had made the thread!!)! You were just playing along acting like it's all cool. And now you're here saying
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and TNT create a fun-making thread about something as serious as this
ARE YOU SERIOUS?! Maaan there are limits to the amount of backstabbing and I-wana-be-everybodys-friend I can take.... . What the hell? Seriously....
PS: For everybody who thinks I'm being too hard on him (I guess) I understand what you mean but I hope if you think about it you can see my point. Perhaps a little less agression would have done but I just can't stand people like that.
EDIT: And incase it's not entirely clear this is also not for defending TnT or anything... once again it's the nature of the thing.
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Doomforge
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posted July 04, 2008 08:17 AM |
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Yeah it's kinda tiresome to see those "always tolerant people" aka "You like when they defecate at your face? Well, I think it's your decision, and I think it's OK.. and why does everyone attack you? Be tolerant, people"..
Hurting one's feelings by being rude is one thing, having an opinion on a matter - an own one - and saying it in a polite way is another. If you just want to agree with everyone, except religion of course because bashing it is trendy, set a bot that will write those "tolerance" and "acceptance" phrases every post. Voila. Nobody will see a difference anyway.
If you're afraid to state your opinion because someone may take offense.. sorry, you fail
The last thing I'd like to add about the whole gender changing (not aimed at Mytical, just the whole idea): You can't change the gender of your soul/character/however you call it, if such thing has a gender at all of course. You just change the wrapper, but you remain the same person, so in the end it changes nothing short of looks. It's like hoping you'd transform your old rusty pickup from 1950 into a newest ferrari just because you bought a new car body for it. No, it won't be a ferrari. It will be the same car as always, and you will always know it, despite your effort to fool others - or perhaps even yourself.
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william
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posted July 04, 2008 08:35 AM |
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Edited by william at 08:35, 04 Jul 2008.
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Anyway, I guess gender-changing operations are better than cross-dressing; I always found cross-dressers embarrasing people.(unless they are called Mulan of course)
Why do you guess that? I would say that cross dressing would be better than having a gender change because at least you are only dressing as a woman/man and not actually having any bodily changes. It just doesn't seem right for a woman to change into a man or vice versa.
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Aculias
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posted July 04, 2008 09:22 AM |
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So are you saying you enjoy dressing like a woman ?
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william
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posted July 04, 2008 09:29 AM |
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No, I am saying that I wouldn't classify cross dressing to be as bad as a gender change. I don't like both to be honest, but cross dressing isn't as bad. At least you are able to revert the changes that you do easier than if you were to try and change a gender change.
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Lexxan
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posted July 04, 2008 10:12 AM |
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You are so fake you know that? Jesus christ... trying to please everybody at once....
Please everybody at once ? What do you think I am ? Somekind of always-nodding hand-puppet than only says things that please others. Pulleeezeee. And are you calling me fake? I actually was honest there.
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url=http://heroescommunity.com/viewthread.php3?TID=26748]LOOK[/url] who made the first post... Did you have the guts to say anything?! No you didn't!
I actually made an error there; I posted first yes, but I failed to see the meaning of that thread untill the second time I watched it, a few hours later, and saw the other members' reactions and realized what it meant. I disagreed with it, and indeed, I didn't post there, simply because I already posted there, and virtually gave that thread a "seal of approval". Besides; posting my disagreement there would have been a sigh of hypocricy (which is a trait I really dislike) I thought, that If I would post it here, I wouldn't look so hypocrite. It seems that I was wrong. It had nothing to do with guts; I posted a lot more arrogant, offending and downright brutal things before, but I never meant to hurt anyone's feelings. It makes me feel extremely bad. 
Why because you wouldn't like to tell someone as TnT that the thread was BS (I bet you my vacation that you hadn't done it had it been DS or someone not as popular who had made the thread!!)! You were just playing along acting like it's all cool. And now you're here saying... I explained most of this in the above paragraph, but some things still need to be sorted out: 1) I simply don't know what BS means 2) I dislike confronting people; It is bad for their relationship and sometimes escalates in in very aggresive rows. I WILL confront people when it's needed, but my first post would let me look like a hypocrite. Indeed, I was acting with it, but I didn't realise it then, any way I already explained this above
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...ARE YOU SERIOUS?! Maaan there are limits to the amount of backstabbing and I-wana-be-everybodys-friend I can take.... . What the hell? Seriously....
[Now you must pay attention: there is mimit to the amount of insults I can take. You don't realise how close your are to the line. Calling me a back-stabber is maybe the greatest insult I ever heard. Let me get this straight: I'm not a back-stabber, but when I disagree with someone, I'll make sure he or she knows this in some way. I did that by posting here (I already explained, but and i WON'T explain again). It's not the best action I took, I know, but please, don't fly on it like a vulture who has just seen a corpse. I'm getting extremely tired of your constant pecking on people. Get YOUR won problems and comment straight before making such brutal posts. It seems, we both need to learn what tact is... About the everybody-friend: Yes, I like to get along with people, like everyone, but a friend? Such a processes take years, so I don't call my fellow HCmembers friends (unless I get along with them all the time). However, I do like most of them, and that's a caracter trait of mine, I like others. And I that may look like I kiss everybody's feet and lick everybody' @$$es, but really I don't, it's simply against my own nature to do so. It may look like it, or I may do such things unintentional, but that's simply because I am honest with them.
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PS: For everybody who thinks I'm being too hard on him (I guess) I understand what you mean but I hope if you think about it you can see my point. Perhaps a little less agression would have done but I just can't stand people like that.
Perhaps, a little more tact would caused me to be less angry towards you. Sometimes a kind word can do more than twenty insults, something someone needs to hammer in you. I'm don't hate you, you were just honest. take care
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winterfate
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posted July 04, 2008 10:23 AM |
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@Lexxan: First of all, I think that this part of Azagal's last post...:
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and TNT create a fun-making thread about something as serious as this
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ARE YOU SERIOUS?! Maaan there are limits to the amount of backstabbing and I-wana-be-everybodys-friend I can take.... . What the hell? Seriously....
...was not directed at you, but at TNT.
Secondly, BS means bull****.
Thirdly, why can't we all get along?
@Azagal: You could've used a little more tact in that last post of yours. And, like I told Lexxan just above, I think you misunderstood part of his post (the snippet in the first quote of this post).
Now, would you two please shake hands? It is clear that this is a misunderstanding.
(Yeah, I'm a diplomat/peacekeeper. One of the many consequences of being an only child. )
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Aculias
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posted July 04, 2008 10:27 AM |
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I guess lexxan is not a goody two shoes anymore 
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Geny
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What if Elvin was female?
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posted July 04, 2008 10:32 AM |
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Unless he's faking it to please Azagal.
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Aculias
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posted July 04, 2008 10:37 AM |
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Being hard on someone. Sometimes they need it.
WHen I was younger I used to be very harsh to people & they needed to hear it.
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