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Aculias
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posted December 14, 2010 02:05 PM |
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Edited by Aculias at 14:08, 14 Dec 2010.
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And as much as I'd like to get a girlfriend, that's not exactly easy if I want to do it properly.
You are right that it is not easy.
You have to remember that women are a little more sensitive & have some needs from a man.
It is hard these days to find one.
You need to learn to be more open minded.
Be more supportive about her too.
It is supposed to be about both of yall not just about you dude.
Seems like everything has to be about you & that is it.
You might of did her a favor by doing that.
Pretty soon if you dont change, you will be 29 & still single.
The older you get, the more lonely it is.
Keep a more open mind & listen to her. be supportive.
No one is perfect, why we are human & you are far from it.
It is hard to find someone that is so similar to your liking.
I like a challenge. I find it boring to have someone to be just like me.
i like to learn more from her.
See what she is like & you never know. You might learn something new.
Edit: Yes Selcy he is 19.
I remember when he joined & he was pretty much the same way.
I would hope when he turned 18 he would see the world in a more different way.
Maybe in the next 10 years, he will see that it is not just about him.
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wog_edn
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posted December 14, 2010 02:12 PM |
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 to Will!
Love takes time to build. It's not something that appears just suddenly and is oh so great. A crush, sure. But when you love someone, it's very very different. And very very deep... took me almost a half year falling for my girl, before that sure I had a crush and it was physical .. but love is something that has to grow, mostly.
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Doomforge
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posted December 14, 2010 02:30 PM |
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I actually didn't (!) have a crush with my current GF. Feelings came in time, without the crush period. yeah, weird (1 year relationship atm)
but maybe it's better that way, as I look into things, differences etc. very rationally 
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posted December 14, 2010 04:35 PM |
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You can't control true love it controls you in many ways, from being unable to sleep or eat to being scared that you may say or do the wrong thing and push they other person away.
fear usually indicates that it is more of a form of possessiveness, such as jealousy
I'm not sure, cause I'm not in people's heads, but for many people it seems to be just about themselves and of course it includes many girls too.
and there are people that are so hypocritical. they are all nice to you, and when you say you are interested in knowing them better, they start acting as if you were some kind of threat or an enemy. but those people aren't serious, they aren't interested in a relationship, they just seek pleasure. some people should understand there is more about life than pursuing pleasure all the time.
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posted December 20, 2010 11:50 AM |
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Well, the thing about my ex in New Zealand was kinda stupid yes :S We don't even talk anymore, and i actually don't care..
I've met another girl for about 3 weeks ago, and she makes me feel (well, i don't wanna say it here, cuz it may sound girly  )
We where on a date 2 weeks ago, where i pulled the classic cinema date. We had the love seats to the harry potter movie. After that she asked: "Is that it? Thats a short date then." Then i asked if we could move to her place. But no, we ended at my place, and i drove her home a 06:30 at saturday morning.
Then she called me and asked if i wanted to pick her up again, and make a follow up on our date today (saturday), and happy as i was i said yes. And drove her home sunday morning again.
Then 1,5 weeks ago we where shopping christmas presents together.
And 1 week ago, we where finally at her place, where she had lit up some candles and such, very romantic. A very good movie night and other things  You know what i mean!
And 2 days ago we where at a party together.
So now, on december 22, i invited her to the movies again. Tron Legacy btw. And i want to ask her the question (Not THE question, but the boyfriend girlfriend question), and i want it to be a little special, like romantic you know, but i don't have any idea at all!!
HELP ME!!!
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Doomforge
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posted December 20, 2010 11:54 AM |
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How about making it casual? If you have no ideas on how to make it interesting, a good casual makes better impression than weak special
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posted December 20, 2010 12:38 PM |
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Good luck, be yourself and all that  You know you could try this but I'm not convinced it's the best approach 
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posted December 20, 2010 12:38 PM |
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Well, that makes sence  But still, i really want to make something special out of it.
Or do you think that bringing flowers is enough?
Thanks elvin  And i'm not doing like that 
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Doomforge
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posted December 20, 2010 12:43 PM |
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Flowers are nice. I would call them sufficient, actually - here girls are likely to freak out if you try to be TOO special 
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posted December 20, 2010 12:46 PM |
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Hmm, well, thanks DF I try the flowers, and ofcourse paying for the night 
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Elvin
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posted December 20, 2010 12:46 PM |
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How well do you know her? For instance a dinner or cinema is rather standard, do you know what things she likes, maybe noticed some activity/exhibition/place she would enjoy around that day? It would be more original plus you show that you pay attention to her interests, either way it's pretty obvious that she likes you
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Doomforge
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posted December 20, 2010 01:11 PM |
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Since you had a romantic dinner, movie night and sex, whatever you do up to this point won't really screw up, unless you totally freak her out
So do whatever feels suitable and natural
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posted December 20, 2010 01:46 PM |
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Hmm, well, thanks DF I try the flowers, and ofcourse paying for the night
Most of all be yourself and don't try too hard. Good luck .
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posted December 20, 2010 01:52 PM |
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Disturbed-Gnu
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posted December 20, 2010 03:03 PM |
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Elvin# Well thanks I was planing to do something she likes ofcourse, and show her that i'm interested. I noticed that she likes poems (Lucky for me)..
Doomforge# Yeah i feel that too, its just that i promissed not to just ask like everybody else does. (She knows i'm gonna ask, because she talked about it her self but said that it was the boys job to ask).
Selcy# Yeah thats the main problem for most people i think. But thanks anyway
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Doomforge
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posted December 20, 2010 04:15 PM |
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(She knows i'm gonna ask, because she talked about it her self but said that it was the boys job to ask).
this means she has already agreed
Think of the guys that have to ask WITHOUT knowing whether the girl will accept or just laugh. You should feel better
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posted December 20, 2010 07:02 PM |
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Why do you need to ask? It sounds like she's already your girlfriend.
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wog_edn
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posted December 20, 2010 07:41 PM |
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Good luck, be yourself and all that You know you could try this but I'm not convinced it's the best approach
Dude, I'm so gonna try that one!! 
Mvass; not necessarily. Haven't you ever slept around and dated a bunch of girls at once without being their bf?
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mvassilev
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posted December 20, 2010 08:19 PM |
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No, I haven't. Remember that it's me you're talking to.
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Doomforge
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posted December 21, 2010 04:40 PM |
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by the way mvass... any luck after that single GF you had?
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