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posted March 24, 2009 09:48 PM |
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No, she makes a big deal of sparing 20 minutes of her precious time because some stupid completely not important test comes tomorrow.
Why can't she just go to bed 30 mins later?
So the test and all is more important than the time we spend together?
I can't stand such behavior. I feel utterly humiliated.
I don't think I can continue feeling like a convenient toy, that can be quite nice, provided there is nothing else to do.
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posted March 24, 2009 09:55 PM |
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I'm starting to like your gf's attitude 
EDIT: not for a crappy test of course...
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posted March 24, 2009 09:57 PM |
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@mvass
If your friend asked you to stay those 20 min longer wouldn't you do it? I mean it is someone significant in your life and 20 mins won't ruin your plans for the entire day, it doesn't require that serious commitment. And as Doom says it's not the first time.
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for the reasons stated above I think that maybe she has something else in mind, like 'not having you have it your way all the time'
I really don't know, it's just a guess
oh and don't dump her just for that, you'll feel stupid afterwards
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posted March 24, 2009 09:57 PM |
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Doom?? Im with mvass here
I don't how much you see eachother .. but if it was me. I can't have much in my head or do that much a day..
I like to focus on 1 thing .. even if we talk about 20min.. have you any idea how a person can throw you off track? 
no offense dude. I don't even know how importen the test is but let her do it.. you can "have fun" later  You got hands?
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posted March 24, 2009 09:58 PM |
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Well, any ideas guys?
I'm really close to dumping her.
Now it's those tests, in the summer it will be part time job, then highschool, than exams, than college, then work... Assuming we would be together that long.. and every time there would be something more important to fill her damn schedule.
Maybe it's me, maybe I'm paranoid or something? I don't know. I just feel.. humiliated >_> It's just stupid 20 minutes. It changes nothing. :/
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posted March 24, 2009 09:59 PM |
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lol emil, weren't you the one posting about how many hours a day you spend sitting next to each other doin pretty much nuthin? joke
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ask her to arrange you some time together, you just sit back and watch what and how she does it
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posted March 24, 2009 10:01 PM |
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She told me "she'll have plenty of time for me next month, when all the exams are finished".
Until then, it's "30 mins once a week". BWAHWHHAHAHWHAJWJAHSJKASJGLAKGL
There is only ONE good answer to that, and it's
"go **** yourself"
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posted March 24, 2009 10:03 PM |
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take a chill pill yo rasta man
then react
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posted March 24, 2009 10:05 PM |
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Look, I took those exams myself, there require absolutely 0 knowledge, it's all about reading the text and drawing conclusions from it!
Even now, I don't remember even 5% of pre-high school material, I still do every one of them at 100%!
I even did it on her very own eyes to prove her it's a waste of time.
And I don't ask of much. 30 minutes per week? What is this folly? So she can waste time going to the cinema or sitting in front of tv, but she can't spare more time for me?
Look, it's TOTALLY UTTERLY RIDICULOUS.
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posted March 24, 2009 10:09 PM |
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True Veco But I can't do anything else than nothing.. that is the irony!
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posted March 24, 2009 10:10 PM |
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Maybe it's me, maybe I'm paranoid or something? I don't know. I just feel.. humiliated >_> It's just stupid 20 minutes. It changes nothing. :/
I can see your frustration and she should as well, but do you see her's? I mean, isn't love actually about feeling happy what your loved one actually is than what you want them to be, or how you want them to be?
eh?
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And I don't ask of much. 30 minutes per week? What is this folly? So she can waste time going to the cinema or sitting in front of tv, but she can't spare more time for me?
Look, it's TOTALLY UTTERLY RIDICULOUS.
Why are you surprised? Movies are awesome!
Why can't you go with her? 
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posted March 24, 2009 10:12 PM |
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Of course it is, mate. I would never want to change a person I love.
But just look at it. She has time for other things. She just doesn't care to meet more, to spend time together. It means **** to her. It's good when it's there, but if not, bah, who cares.
See my point?
I'm 99% sure it's DUMP TIME.
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posted March 24, 2009 10:14 PM |
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if we talk about 30min PER WEEK then i'm with you. but if it is 20min everyday .. baaah.. chill pill
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posted March 24, 2009 10:15 PM |
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The way I see it, is that she probably doesn't really care how much you "are" or how you feel when she says "no" to those 20 minutes, but neither do you. Admittedly you are better though since you do care about her when you're with her, but what I meant is, you don't have to get down to "her" level, if it is her level
Maybe she just doesn't realize you want to be with her. Maybe she thinks you want to "do your stuff" (like study, but in your case, something else, idk) too. Did you try talking with her? (in a serious tone, maybe she thinks you're joking or something?)
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posted March 24, 2009 10:15 PM |
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no, it's per week.
How utterly humiliating.
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posted March 24, 2009 10:15 PM |
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I'll keep saying it - chill out first man, you're hotheaded atm
And after your calm and collected go to ther and say how you feel about this. If YOU want to take this relation seriously then the first step is overcoming stuff like that by talking it out (well, in theory )
I dunno, tell her that you want to see 'a little' more commitment from her? nvm I shut up now since it's not backed up by any sxperience
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posted March 24, 2009 10:16 PM |
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I want to see any commitment other than "you know what, I have a free sunday and nothing to do, let's have sex."
EDIT: ok, I'm overreacting, it's not that horrible. But still.. argh.
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posted March 24, 2009 10:37 PM |
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Doom:
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So the test and all is more important than the time we spend together?
Marginal utility.
You're seriously overreacting. If you're going to be that way, you should dump her - for her sake. She shouldn't be going out with someone who's as obsessive as you are.
Guess what? It's okay for to value yourself higher than anything else (and there's nothing wrong with that), but it's kind of childish to expect others to do the same.
veco:
That depends on how much time I've spent with my friend. If I haven't spent any time, and he/she asks me for 20 minutes, of course I would. If I had spent a whole day, I wouldn't.
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posted March 24, 2009 10:38 PM |
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I perfectly understand you Doomforge.. But take the time to think it through, she is younger and has things to realize yet. Not that I delude myself that people can change so easily but don't you think you should give her a chance to understand first?
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posted March 25, 2009 10:28 AM |
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Maybe. I don't know what to think anymore. Well, I still like her, and maybe I'm indeed too obsessed. Bah, I'll just see what future brings. If things don't change, even slightly, it's definitely not a good partner for me. Different priorities.
But you're right on one thing. She is indeed young. When I was her age, I was one heck of a dumb kiddo. Even though women mature faster... bah, ok. Guess it's borrowed time anyway, but let's give it a try.
There is too much I value in her to dump her like that right now
We'll see how she behaves after those stupid exams. It's just a month. If things look really bad, I can always keep her as just a lover ~~
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