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mvassilev
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posted March 26, 2009 02:32 PM |
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Now it's either a serious relationship with lots of care for each other, friendship-based (doesn't mean no sex, of course!) or none at all. I will no longer feel lonely for a bit of time, I think, and my judgment will no longer be clouded by stupid desires.
Sex-based relationships tend to burn out fast, or feel utterly incomplete. And without comfort and care, even best sex isn't good. It's missing something. 
I'm glad you've finally reached this conclusion.  Now, what are you going to do about it.
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phoenixreborn
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posted March 26, 2009 02:34 PM |
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I'm getting mixed up here. Doomforge aren't you a young guy studying at university? You make yourself sound like a 65 year old man who had one last fling and now he can die.
@Winterfate keep being a stellar student and eventually you will be a successful high income earning grown-up. It gives you a better chance to attract a gf.
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Doomforge
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posted March 26, 2009 02:42 PM |
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mvass: Not sure. I guess I will just go on. As for her, well she's certainly not what I'm looking for right now, so I guess I will have to dump her. Pity, but hey, she might be better with someone else. Like, a high-libido teenager, knowing **** about life yet, only wanting to entertain himself 
No worries anyway.
Phoenix, yeah I am technically 22, but I felt like 40yo for the last two years. 
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gabislayer
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posted March 26, 2009 03:20 PM |
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@Winterfate keep being a stellar student and eventually you will be a successful high income earning grown-up. It gives you a better chance to attract a gf.
Yeah right .... been there, done that !! ... if you are going to buy that package you might as well buy the "Santa-clause-exists good-deeds-are-always-rewarded high-morals-are-the-way-in-life and love-exists" package also. Haha ... don't wonder though, why you'll feel that morbid taste of dissapointment in your mouth that will creep up on you everyday .
Like Bill Hicks used to say ... "I suggest you take a look into the world and .... shut your f****' mouth." ... it's a joke of course, don't take it 100% seriously ... just 99%.
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veco
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who am I?
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posted March 26, 2009 03:56 PM |
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As an Evil YesMan I can't find any common ground with the above post.
I believe in karma, it helps me sleep at night so I try being positive about pretty much everything. It's a drastic change from how I were 2 years ago and I can tell you there's a big difference.
On the other hand I know I won't be any good in a relationship so having a gf (although desired somewhere inside) is not nearly a top priority
@winterfate
if I remember your story correctly (somewhat similar to mine) - stay as you are, be yourself and when the next opportunity comes, spam about it here and we'll give you a push so you won't miss the chance
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emilsn
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posted March 26, 2009 04:15 PM |
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hey Doom about that butt fixation or what you had.. I think I can relate to that.. you build up a lot of fantasies that you cannot put in to reality or something.. ?
I think it is some male thing perhaps?
I have always loved big boobs but my girlfriend doesn't have double Ds but i still like hers  Ahh well.. 
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Doomforge
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posted March 26, 2009 04:21 PM |
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hey Doom about that butt fixation or what you had.. I think I can relate to that.. you build up a lot of fantasies that you cannot put in to reality or something.. ?
Of course I can, she wasn't flat-butted you know, she was (and is) absolutely marvelous when it comes to shape & size there
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I think it is some male thing perhaps?
What do you mean by that?
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I have always loved big boobs but my girlfriend doesn't have double Ds but i still like hers Ahh well..
I think that if you really care about a person, you don't mind he or she not being totally an embodiment of your imagined perfection. Works different way if the relationship is meant to be very, well, physical.
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emilsn
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posted March 26, 2009 05:36 PM |
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I think it is some male thing perhaps?
What do you mean by that?
Male thing as we want our fantasy
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I have always loved big boobs but my girlfriend doesn't have double Ds but i still like hers Ahh well..
I think that if you really care about a person, you don't mind he or she not being totally an embodiment of your imagined perfection. Works different way if the relationship is meant to be very, well, physical.
Yeah true indeed - I agree totally
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Doomforge
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posted March 26, 2009 07:25 PM |
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Well, we have had a little talk and she practically begged me not to end it and not to dump her.
hmpf. I was pretty sure to do it and I'm not sure anymore.
Awww, woman's persuasion.
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emilsn
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posted March 26, 2009 09:12 PM |
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You slept with her, didn't you?
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veco
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who am I?
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posted March 26, 2009 09:14 PM |
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You are weak!
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Doomforge
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posted March 26, 2009 09:19 PM |
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of course I did.. but not today We were talking on the phone.
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emilsn
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posted March 26, 2009 09:22 PM |
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Never deny the power of phonesex..
Eventhough I haven't tried it. I was just trying to make a perverse joke ..
yet - Talking seems to work then... Ahh well those girl magasin might be right after all...
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Keksimaton
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Talk to the hand
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posted March 26, 2009 09:35 PM |
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Even though I have little to no experience in human relationships I am quite sure that a great basis on any healthy relationship would be good and healthy communication.
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DagothGares
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No gods or kings
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posted March 26, 2009 11:16 PM |
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You call yourself a man, keksi? Real man don't talk about rtheir feelings.
Let's lift some IRON
While talking about chicks
UWAAAAAAGH!!!
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winterfate
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Water-marked Champion!
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posted March 27, 2009 04:55 AM |
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I feel I owe everyone who has read this thread between yesterday and today an apology for my recent post.
I used very strong words...and I probably dragged down the Happy Level down a few inches while I was at it as well.
I feel much better now, just had a very nasty slump yesterday...way too many things all at once...
Anyways, carry on and keep on talking about Love.
@Dagoth: LOL. That perception of man is so '90s.
@veco: Thanks. Will do.
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emilsn
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posted March 27, 2009 07:14 AM |
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Let's lift some IRON
UWWWWWWWWWWWAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHRG!
I like chicks!!
UWAAARGH!
They make you feel good
UWAARGH
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Minion
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posted March 27, 2009 02:01 PM |
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Well, we have had a little talk and she practically begged me not to end it and not to dump her.
hmpf. I was pretty sure to do it and I'm not sure anymore.
Awww, woman's persuasion.
A good step, as she won't take you for granted now, maybe work a little towards to seeing each other more often. Or did you talk about anything about to be changed, or did you just cave in for things to continue like they are? If so, see you in a few weeks when you are back threatening to end it again
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Doomforge
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posted March 27, 2009 02:19 PM |
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She knows what I think about it, but I don't want to force her. See, a forced "care" is even worse than no care at all.
I'll let things go the natural way. We'll just see what future brings, except cheap, strictly physical pleasure from time to time.
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Minion
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posted March 27, 2009 02:51 PM |
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Lol, talking about it is different than forcing I am glad you did the former though ;D At the minimum you are still getting laid, so smile on ^^
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