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mvassilev
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posted October 13, 2009 05:13 PM |
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Ohforfsake:
Maybe the immature people should be the ones to be sent into war. If they're killed, it's no as big of a loss. 
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JoonasTo
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What if Elvin was female?
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posted October 13, 2009 06:20 PM |
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I failed.
I tried subtly to make him angry. Angry is better than depressed or feeling sorry for himself. Looks like I have become too friendly to him for it to work.
Yes, yes. It hurts but you'll get over it with time.
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pei
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Fresh Air.
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posted October 13, 2009 06:45 PM |
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I think william that you should start seeing others but dont think it as a date, dont schedule/program/think!, just go out and have fun with other girls. You have the power of doing what you want, when you want and how you want and she has given it to you. If this girl wants "time", that means that she´s not entirely happy with you and she thinks about other guys, like those of previous relationships. Had a friend in the same spot, the girl, his girlfriend just wanted to party and taste promiscuous life before commiting and she also dressed it as "I want a time to think and bla bla".
Dont be a fool. Leave this girl, i know that this can break your heart but this girl could taste like another person next time you see her. Love and obsession are different things, i dunno why but love is stronger when you just cant have the girl or when things are complicated. Leave her. Go with others. You have nothing to loose and that makes you the most dangerous man on earth.
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wog_edn
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The Nothingness
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posted October 13, 2009 08:43 PM |
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In other words; go nuts and sleep with heaps of girls
Anyways, not trying to break the endless line of advices to Will but .. I am happyyyyy 
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william
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LummoxLewis
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posted October 14, 2009 12:33 PM |
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She isn't going to talk to me for a couple of weeks because she needs to think about stuff and sort through stuff and the same for me as well. I was upset when she told me this. That means I won't be seeing her this Friday. I'll probably be able to talk to her Wednesday in 2 weeks time. My day has just gone from bad to worse. 
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Doomforge
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posted October 14, 2009 12:48 PM |
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I would be upset too - I hate when people try to shunt me with some ridiculous alogical BS excuse. In fact, it's the most annoying thing that can happen in relationship/after it.
I don't understand why it's such a BIG DEAL to express your feelings without those stupid games, "thinking stuff through" and such... Especially for women. I never wait if they start their little show, I just tell them to get the snow out of my life immediately. Mytical will probably say I'm completely impatient and don't know how things work  But hey, that's just me. I always try to express my feelings best I can and I never tell other people to wait "until I make up my mind", it's snobbery.
So Will, I know you think differently probably (and this was your first real GF, right?) and you probably care for her, thus want to give her a second chance. I don't believe in second chances. Once somebody comes to a point where he/she deliberately breaks up with you (or starts talking the BS about "needing time to think it through), it's completely and definitively over to me. No second chances.
Waiting for someone to make up her mind would be like accepting the stupid "you know, I'm not even sure whether I want to be with you". If she is not sure, then k, np, I don't need to beg for your snowing attention, go find your prince charming, I'm outta here, bye.
I still wish you best luck, ofc.
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william
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LummoxLewis
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posted October 14, 2009 12:54 PM |
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Quote:
So Will, I know you think differently probably (and this was your first real GF, right?) and you probably care for her, thus want to give her a second chance. I don't believe in second chances. Once somebody comes to a point where he/she deliberately breaks up with you (or starts talking the BS about "needing time to think it through), it's completely and definitively over to me. No second chances.
This was my first real GF, yes. I still love her and care about her a lot. I think she wants to have the time to think and for me to think as well and try to be calm and everything when we need talk. It still hurts though.
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pei
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Fresh Air.
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posted October 14, 2009 12:59 PM |
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They are not games Doom,only excuses disguised. We men are usually very dumb and give them that "space" they need...come on! if a women does not want to give space to her couple she simply denies it or leaves him. This is outrageous and you will wait until she wants to talk?? Just leave her, she will be coming in a couple of weeks when her fantasy realtionship with another men ends. Its cruel but its life. The truth is that most men are **** and most women are ****, you dont sound like one in this bag but she does, go and find a girl who wont **** around neither break your heart when she has an identity crisis. It doesnt matter if she returns and you two have a hell of a time, she doesnt communicate her feelings and doubts, she only says that she will be returning from talking to her ex? Leave her man or will i have to kidnap you and take you to a **** tour to know that there are other fish in the river?? Believe me, you dont want that girl to be the future mother of your children...
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william
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LummoxLewis
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posted October 14, 2009 01:02 PM |
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It's not just the ex that is a problem, it's other things that she has to sort out, of which I do not know. I know I should move on but I...I just can't. Not right now. My love isn't going to go away that easily.
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Doomforge
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posted October 14, 2009 01:04 PM |
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Harsh but true, pei.
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pei
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Fresh Air.
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posted October 14, 2009 01:17 PM |
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Willim lets start from this: you dont have to believe every word she says. Perhaps she does have to sort some things out...but whats most probable is that she only has to talk with her ex and that the other sort out part is just a lie. She could be right now talking to her ex just telling him that you two broke up, cause she wont see you around for days and he can actually fall for that. If she plays it good and he falls, you will be dumped after this period (which i believe is the best for you). If she goes out with him but still doesnt have the quality time she expected then she will return...at least for now.
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william
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LummoxLewis
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posted October 14, 2009 01:20 PM |
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No, she's over him and she has told me he does't know and she won't be telling him because it's none of his business. She's been over him for a while. My friend even confirmed that with me as well.
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pei
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Fresh Air.
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posted October 14, 2009 01:28 PM |
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Oh! My friend you are risking too much, what a women talks and what a women feels or thinks are two entirely different things(hope TD is not here to criticize that). If she´s a good lier then you wont even realize it.
My advise is if you are not going to leave her then go to her house and behave 100% rational, tell her your doubts and ****. If you two do not talk then the relation will always plant doubts.
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Doomforge
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posted October 14, 2009 01:32 PM |
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pei is right though: you really shouldn't believe in such blatant BS.
My wild guess would be:
she met another guy and he's really great (not necessarily her ex.) She wants to give him a try but she kinda likes you. So she decided to dump you for a while and go for him. If it fails she'll return to you. If not she'll stay with him and dump you.
Sorry if that sounds kinda depressing, but it's the most logical solution. Don't give up man, first fascination is always hard to get over but you don't seem a kind of a person that gives up after such affair - mostly because if my wild guess was correct, she wasn't even worth your time.
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wog_edn
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posted October 18, 2009 12:37 AM |
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Wohoo, half year with my girl today  lucky me!
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Doomforge
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posted October 18, 2009 11:21 AM |
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That ain't much. Nothing to brag about  But feel free to do so when you're, like, 20 years together and still in love. That's something impressive.
Can't help but to laugh at people who celebrate their "first month together". So funny.
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emilsn
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posted November 01, 2009 10:31 PM |
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I am happy and satisfied
Now you know
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Azagal
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Smooth Snake
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posted November 01, 2009 10:48 PM |
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Good to know emil .
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Can't help but to laugh at people who celebrate their "first month together"
Arre arre... is someone jealous ?
And yes it's kinda melodramatic to celebrate 1 month. Half a year is still something to celebrate though congratulations.
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wog_edn
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posted November 01, 2009 11:36 PM |
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Didn't really celebrate it much ... I just made dinner, then we watched a movie and played some games then did it like bunnies ... your normal weekend, except for especially good food
Besides, first time I've cared to stick with one girl for more than a week or so, and I really like her .. so I choose to be happy 
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emilsn
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posted November 02, 2009 01:00 PM |
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I still dont get what people have against month days!
I agree half year and whole years are a bit more speciel than the first 3 months, but I like to atleast try to be with my GF at those days but most of the time we dont..
I just really like the idea of this day
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