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Doomforge
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posted August 31, 2009 08:50 AM |
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I'd normally agree with Cor, but the picture is rather disturbing.
But hey, why don't you ask her? It's a public profile, isn't it? Anyone can see it, including you. So what's wrong with stumbling upon it and feeling insecure? Nothing. Perhaps this guy is just some random pal of her that has been fooling around.
I really don't think she'd keep a "second boyfriend" in public like that. I mean, don't people try to keep it a secret? Here, it just looks like an unimportant flirt. Or that girl of yours just doesn't give a snow about rules, but I don't think it's that bad.
Tell us the result after you're done talking 
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william
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posted August 31, 2009 11:00 AM |
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Yeah, just talk to her about it, maybe not in a serious way though, maybe just bring it up as a joke or something because you don't want to come off as being too paranoid or something. 
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emilsn
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posted August 31, 2009 01:41 PM |
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Hmm...
I dont read anything really really bad in her posts.. It could be a personal friend who is apparently going away? that is how I read it.. Eventhough I dont know what "jack" is writting.
But why dont you just ask her not like: WHO IS HIM!=?!?!!?!?!
But hey honey I logged onto your myspace and I saw this, is it anything? no. okay. *hug and kisses*
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Fauch
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posted August 31, 2009 01:51 PM |
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-But hey honey I logged onto your myspace and I saw this, is it anything?
-Yes he is my husband
-  what?
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william
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posted August 31, 2009 01:55 PM |
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But hey honey I logged onto your myspace and I saw this, is it anything? no. okay. *hug and kisses*
Even that sounds kinda too paranoid or sounding too suspicious. Maybe asking in this way may be better:
"Hey, was just browsing pictures on your myspace, and saw this guy (whatever his name is). He seems nice, is he a school friend or something?".
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baklava
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posted August 31, 2009 03:00 PM |
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Post this on 4chan. They'll know what to do.
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winterfate
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posted September 01, 2009 05:25 AM |
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I flirt with my closest girl friends as well, so it may just be innocent banter.
Until she gives you a reason to, don't doubt her. 
*leaves the forum as suddenly as he came back*
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posted September 01, 2009 08:18 PM |
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I flirt with my male friends and my GF's friends 
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Azagal
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posted September 01, 2009 08:32 PM |
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I'm not sure . They seem to be pretty intimate. But that doesn't have to mean anything should the guy really be a very close friend of hers (and well maybe she's this kind of "girly" woman that does this "lovey dovy huggy"-stuff a lot so perhaps it not all that serious, you should know)... in anycase I'd really talk to her about it.
I'm certain you'll find a way to to smoothly bring the topic in since it's a public profile you don't have to be a jealousy crased stalker in order to have found it and you're not the social equivalent of a blind gorilla so go MM!
I can understand you're discomfort though. But while I do understand you I also think Corribus concerns aren't entirely off. The shock shouldn't get the better of you.
Good luck with that talk.
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TheDeath
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posted September 01, 2009 08:40 PM |
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Post this on 4chan. They'll know what to do.
+1
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posted September 02, 2009 03:36 AM |
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(and well maybe she's this kind of "girly" woman that does this "lovey dovy huggy"-stuff a lot so perhaps it not all that serious, you should know
Hey! I resemble resent that remark! 
There's nothing wrong with being empathic and emotional. Just makes me different and against the norm.
Different is good.
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william
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posted October 12, 2009 12:00 PM |
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My GF broke up with me. I was upset and angry. Punched a hole through my door and cried. I've never felt this sad before in my life.
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posted October 12, 2009 12:10 PM |
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That stinks. I would send you a hug, but people tend to get freaked out about that.
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Elvin
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posted October 12, 2009 12:48 PM |
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Sorry to hear that Will.. Hope it won't drag you under.
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ohforfsake
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posted October 12, 2009 01:16 PM |
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My GF broke up with me.
That's always sad, remember though, she's probably the one who needs to find out what she wants, not you, give her time, and welcome the possibility for you to find interesting people, without been concerned of what she might think.
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I was upset and angry. Punched a hole through my door and cried. I've never felt this sad before in my life.
If you read this wrong, it says that you cried because you hurted your hand on the door and became upset, angry and very sad about it.
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I flirt with my male friends and my GF's friends
Haha, that must be weirdness! That's if your GF's friends also are males of course, I can just imagine it haha. Girlfriend completely confused, too confused to think about if it's unacceptable for her or not, and also too confused to think about flirting herself, and male friends of her afraid to go near her because her BF might try to come on to them.
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I clicked on one of my favorites and realized that she had deleted the comment I had left on there. Weird but whatever. Then what caught my attention was some guy named Jack had left a comment saying how hot she looks and how he can't wait to see her after work. Ok, that's triggering my warning signals so doing what I have never done before, I decide to snoop a bit and I click on this guys name to see who he is and how he knows my girlfriend.
I start looking and reading his page. He seems like a cool guy. Then I start to read his wall.
Don't let your emotions get the better of you, remember if you're marrying this girl, she's probably more worth than the adrenaline rush emotions can present, though you probably already know this.
Also remember this girl is with you, and not with him, which means at the end of the day, it's you she wants to be with, no matter what this other guy can offer her.
Finally it's very important that she still have the freedom to be with friends in the way she likes, certainly it may develop into more than that, but it's up to her to find out, and in the end, all you can do, is to do what you already do, that's loving her, I suppose.
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That stinks. I would send you a hug, but people tend to get freaked out about that.
It reminds me of this girl who always sended hugs to me over messenger when chatting, I thought it was cute, so once I send hugs back to her, she freaked out and never wrote to me again.
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Elvin
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posted October 12, 2009 01:31 PM |
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It reminds me of this girl who always sended hugs to me over messenger when chatting, I thought it was cute, so once I send hugs back to her, she freaked out and never wrote to me again.
Ohforf'sake
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william
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posted October 12, 2009 02:31 PM |
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Sorry to hear that Will.. Hope it won't drag you under.
I've been terribly depressed (to the point of wanting to commit suicide) and this just added to it. I'm not in a good shape at the moment.
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posted October 12, 2009 03:03 PM |
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I'm sorry to hear that, will. If you want, you can talk about it to these people you will never see in your life. At least, i'm always listening
Unless of course, you told er about said place...
Anyway, good luck will!
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ohforfsake
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posted October 12, 2009 03:04 PM |
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Sorry to hear that Will.. Hope it won't drag you under.
I've been terribly depressed (to the point of wanting to commit suicide) and this just added to it. I'm not in a good shape at the moment.
I think life is always worth it, no matter what! Remember if death = nothing at all, then you won't even be existing, of course I understand that you might want nothing at all, but why as long as there's the slightest chance, the slightest hope, that not only may she come around, but she's still there, if she means this much, then do the right thing, and make certain she's fine and well, she may one day realise how you feel, and realise how she feels, othwerise you'd be happy for her happiness.
On the other hand, if you don't care about her anymore (and her happiness), why letting yourself been affected by it? Remember you've so many people that most likely loves you (some you might even not know), would you want them to go through the same as you, because of commiting suicide?
Choose live, please.
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william
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posted October 12, 2009 03:53 PM |
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Thanks Dagoth.
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I think life is always worth it, no matter what! Remember if death = nothing at all, then you won't even be existing, of course I understand that you might want nothing at all, but why as long as there's the slightest chance, the slightest hope, that not only may she come around, but she's still there, if she means this much, then do the right thing, and make certain she's fine and well, she may one day realise how you feel, and realise how she feels, othwerise you'd be happy for her happiness.
On the other hand, if you don't care about her anymore (and her happiness), why letting yourself been affected by it? Remember you've so many people that most likely loves you (some you might even not know), would you want them to go through the same as you, because of commiting suicide?
Choose live, please.
She said she needs to sort some stuff out with previous relationships and I asked her if she would be willing to try again if it was all sorted and she said yes. I'm holding some hope that it can work out the second time when there's nothing on her mind.
I'm letting myself be affected by it because I still love and care about her, a lot. She knows how I feel as well, we had a video convo and she saw what I was like.
By the way, me wanting to commit suicide wasn't because of this relationship, it was other issues, but it's all just ombined and I feel like ****.
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