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posted November 21, 2009 05:15 PM |
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Yeah listen to them Carcity... I also think you should go for it. Because it's like they all said before: If you do ask her you'll get an answer which is a lot better than just lying, regretting it, being insecure about the whole situation, etc etc. no matter her answer is a yes or a no.
But Dagoth said it we can talk all we want and pretend we know it all but in the end you should do what you think is best. And if that is not telling her an waiting for a "better" moment you go ahead and do that .
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posted November 21, 2009 06:19 PM |
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I have decided to tell her, If she does say no I'll know that.
any Idea what to say?
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posted November 21, 2009 06:42 PM |
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any Idea what to say?
"My love problem is you. I'm too shy." 
(this was a joke, it's not very uh... "romantic" )
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posted November 21, 2009 07:24 PM |
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Come on don't ask us for every little thing have some confidence! Just tell her you like her and you problem is that you have no idea how she feels about you. Of course you can say this with a bit more elegant and depending on her character you might spice it up here and there but that's all stuff you have to do yourself man^^.
Come on now have some confidence worst case scenario is you're an experience richer.
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posted November 21, 2009 07:31 PM |
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Don't take too many advices on the internet, she's just 13yo and those advices won't work too well in most cases 
Be nice to her. Tell her you like her. Ask what she thinks of you. Then give her a proposition if the feeling is mutual. All you have to do.
You lose NOTHING by asking, but you DO lose something by NOT asking (the opportunity). So it's clearly better to ask.
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posted November 21, 2009 07:42 PM |
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it's better to live one day as a lion than a hundred years as a sheep.
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posted November 21, 2009 09:38 PM |
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She's 13. You're 14. Just don't even start - it'll be pointless anyway.
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posted November 21, 2009 09:40 PM |
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nonono. It's a good time. Later on all interesting girls are in deep relationships and you're stuck with those who weren't desired by anybody.
Best to start early, before others, cause this means biggest choice.
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posted November 21, 2009 09:44 PM |
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nonono. It's a good time. Later on all interesting girls are in deep relationships and you're stuck with those who weren't desired by anybody.
Not so in my experience. Most (high school) girls have trouble holding relationships that last more than two months, and, again, most wipe the slate clean when they get to college. So waiting is much better.
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posted November 21, 2009 09:47 PM |
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mvass, you have to consider that relationships, sex and all of that tastes better, much more powerful when you're young. 
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posted November 21, 2009 09:49 PM |
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Waiting for what?
Jesus if he has feelings for her let him tell her. He's not doing this to get in her pants, what the hell is wrong with you? What is there to "wait" for, hmm? He can have a try at a relationship if he wants to it'll only make him wiser.
EDIT: I'm not a fan of sex in that age either lol. But why do you (mvass) ALWAYS turn stuff into sex?! We're just talking about relationships get a hold on reality man .
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posted November 21, 2009 09:50 PM |
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I'm with Azzie.
There is no benefit in waiting. And even if he wants to get in her pants eventually, so what?
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posted November 21, 2009 09:56 PM |
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It's not about wanting to. "Eventually" is the key word.
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posted November 21, 2009 10:01 PM |
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Come on don't ask us for every little thing have some confidence! Just tell her you like her and you problem is that you have no idea how she feels about you. Of course you can say this with a bit more elegant and depending on her character you might spice it up here and there but that's all stuff you have to do yourself man^^.
Come on now have some confidence worst case scenario is you're an experience richer.
well, I'm sorry but I do not have ant experience in the matter.
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posted November 21, 2009 10:01 PM |
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Waiting for what?
Waiting until both he and the girls around him are more mature.
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But why do you (mvass) ALWAYS turn stuff into sex?
What? I didn't even mention sex!
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mvass, you have to consider that relationships, sex and all of that tastes better, much more powerful when you're young.
It's not worth the trouble, IMO. I know when I was 14 I definitely wouldn't have bothered.
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posted November 21, 2009 10:09 PM |
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If you guys took the time to get a fresh breath and clean your prejudice you would see mvass meant that at that age, relationships are futile, they will be broken soon. Yeah it's fine and dandy to be in one, but not so if you consider how heart broken you can be (like william who even thought about suicide). How can the short-sighted benefits possibly outweight the bad outcome?
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posted November 21, 2009 10:10 PM |
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@Carcity
I didn't mean to sound annoyed or anything I just wanted to let you know that you shouldn't stress yourself out so much. It's cool to ask I mean were glad to help but I just think you shouldn't take it too far. You still want this to be you talking to the girl not the combined effort of some faceless persons from the internet, no? I'm pretty sure that most of us could come up with something that'd be like honey to the ears of a 13 year old girl but why hell should we? We're not really helping you if we would! So all I was trying to say is that you should be less nervous and just believe in yourself. Confidence is sexy I can tell you that much^^.
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Oh come on what's with all the "more mature" stuff? No I'm sure "sex" was the furthest thing on your mind when you told him to "wait"... come on... It's most likely not going to be the love of his life but who cares? It's all about experience and having butterflies in your belly~~~ if he wants to go out with her, take her to movies, hold hands, talk, kiss, what not it's fine! Jesus there is nothing wrong or "tainted" or "premature" if you go out with a girl at the age of 14 oO.
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posted November 21, 2009 10:12 PM |
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What's the point of starting a relationship if you know it's going to end within a year, and probably much, much sooner?
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It's most likely not going to be the love of his life but who cares?
If it's not, then what's the point of even trying?
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Jesus there is nothing wrong or "tainted" or "premature" if you go out with a girl at the age of 14 oO.
I think suicides, which are in real life, because of break ups at that age are a bit "premature" to end one's life.
and of course suicide is one of the worst outcomes -- that doesn't mean something less bad wouldn't happen, while not as dramatic, still... well... bad.
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posted November 21, 2009 10:16 PM |
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Lol yeah. Just a good flirt. 0,5 year, a year, maybe even two. Happy carefree relationship that will be something to return to in memories - of course without the "oh I loved her so much" drama, I hope... ) I mean, as long carcity doesn't bother his next girlfriends with this... why not?
So what if it ends? Everything ends. People marry and a huge % of marriages ends with a divorce. Maturity heightens the chance, but doesn't grant a good relationship only BECAUSE the participants are mature.
Besides, young girls are hot at least he will be the first one. We are males after all, we want to be first.
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